3rd Trimester

Crazy Question!! Warning- Mature Audiences Only : )

Hey guys-

This is a totally random question, but how many of you guys are okay with your husbands watching porn? I am totally against it, and I just found out that one of my best friends not only thinks its okay for her husband to watch it..but she watches it with him!! Call me jealous..but I could never imagine watching my husband "get off" on some other womens body.. Especially considering how gross I feel about my body right now! What are your thoughts?

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Re: Crazy Question!! Warning- Mature Audiences Only : )

  • I like porn more than my husband does. 

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  • Really? I guess I have just never gotten into it...then again I havent had that much exposure to it. So your not jealous when he watches it?
  • I don't mind porn. I've even showed DH some good sites to go to.
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    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    This for me, too. And when he does watch it, I am most certainly not jealous. He's only human. 

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  • No, it really doesn't bother me. The women he normally watches look like me.  Porn, for us, is an enhancement like a vibrator or massage oils. 

    Plus, I would much rather my husband get it on with Rosie Palms and her 5 sisters while watching Anal Babes 27 than actually having sex with another woman. 

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  • Dup. 

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  • We watch porn together.  I actually feel bad for women who are intimidated by porn Wink
  • My husband watches porn, I watch porn.  It does not make me jealous or uncomfortable.  I'd rather him get off watching porn than fantasizing about being with an ex or something.
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  • My husband doesn;t really look at porn to often but I don't mind when he does as long as I don't hear/see it. One time I was upstairs sleeping and woke up to him watching it downstairs...not pleased.
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    We watch porn together.  I actually feel bad for women who are intimidated by porn Wink

    Same here

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    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    This for me, too. And when he does watch it, I am most certainly not jealous. He's only human. 

     

    This. It doesn't upset me at all. Sometimes, I just am not in the mood, so porn is good for those times. 

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    No, it really doesn't bother me. The women he normally watches look like me.  Porn, for us, is an enhancement like a vibrator or massage oils. 

    Plus, I would much rather my husband get it on with Rosie Palms and her 5 sisters while watching Anal Babes 27 than actually having sex with another woman. 

     

    I find it amusing when they have these numbers after them. I know it's the 27th video of the title, but when you go to buy something randomly like this, do you ever think the clerk believes you have 1 through 26? haha! It just makes me laugh a little inside.

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  • I'm far from comfortable with my body, but the idea doesn't bother me in the least. If he owned any I would be MORE comfortable watching it together than him just watching it with me home and taking care of himself, I think that could be indicative of a problem. Besides, most guys will tell you that more than the woman involved, it's just witnessing the act that's arousing, rather than watching the girl involved.
  • Thats true.. I just have never thought about this subject a whole lot. Do you watch the same things or do watch different things separately?
  • He watches porn occasionally and also gets a bajillion porn clip emails from his friends.  It doesn't bother me at all and I sometimes like to watch it with him for my own stimulation. 

    However, if he locked himself in the office and was watching porn alone every night and spanking it in front of the computer I may have second thoughts...

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  • H enjoys porn and it's pretty much "saved" our marriage when my libido went to nil after getting knocked up.  He has an outlet, I don't have to worry about doing it just to please him, and I'm not jealous or intimidated at all.

    We have watched porn together.  I have watched porn alone.  I enjoy it.  We have also gone to strip clubs together (in our crazier "dating" days, but still) so we might be a little more open to things than some.

    I did have a bf in college who would watch/use porn allll the time and then have nothing left for me and THAT was a huge issue.  He was definately addicted and it created a HUGE chasm of intamacy for us and ultimately led to our breakup after 5 1/2 years of dating.

    With H, he's rather be having sex with me, but if I don't feel up to it or we don't see each other for a while, he "resorts" to his porn.  To me that's totally different than porn taking my "place," if you know what I mean.

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  • We sometimes watch it together.  He gets stuff he knows I'll like since there is some porn I'm not a fan of.  He watches it by himself on occasion (a lot this pregnancy since sex has pretty much been MIA) and I don't mind.  I would mind if he was watching it all of the time or not having sex with me.  I don't see the big deal as long as it isn't an addiction or substitution of me.  I am secure with myself and know my DH loves me and finds me attractive.  This also means he wants to have sex with me, all the time.  So, no, I'm not jealous or worried.

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  • I don't mind that Dh watches it, and sometimes we watch it together. 
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  • image cinema_goddess:
    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    this. and that is more entertaining for my husband than him watching it himself lol.

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    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    i dont know if I like it MORE, but I am totally down with watching...then proving I can do it better than THAT chick.

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    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    i dont know if I like it MORE, but I am totally down with watching...then proving I can do it better than THAT chick.

    Your favorite porno is Deep Throat, isn't it? 

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  • I watch alot of porn. Honestly I think H would be surprised if he only knew. He does too though, we go porn shopping together. We see it as foreplay together/fun alone. We also go to strip clubs together. It's all about your boundaries and what your marriage can handle.  
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    I'm far from comfortable with my body, but the idea doesn't bother me in the least. If he owned any I would be MORE comfortable watching it together than him just watching it with me home and taking care of himself, I think that could be indicative of a problem. Besides, most guys will tell you that more than the woman involved, it's just witnessing the act that's arousing, rather than watching the girl involved.

    This.  Not that DH doesn't think some of the women are attractive, but it is watching them have sex that is the turn on, not necessarily them.  The men in porn are usually hideous, but it is still a turn on because watching sex is arousing.  Make sense OP?

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    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    This.  I ff through the blow job stuff and *** shots though.  I will never understand why that is supposed to be arousing. *** turns my stomach for some reason, irl and in videos.  I'm a weird one I suppose.  Watching my dh j/o totally turns me on but seeing or feeling *** makes me ill. 

     

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    My husband doesn;t really look at porn to often but I don't mind when he does as long as I don't hear/see it. One time I was upstairs sleeping and woke up to him watching it downstairs...not pleased.

    yeah this happened in our house too and THAT did bother me. Its one thing if I am not home...because i do that myself...but when you "catch" them its almost sneaky. And when you are in the damn house...hello...I'd like to get on that too ha-ha

  • I have seen porn ruin a lot of marriages, and I've seen porn have absolutely no affect on marriages. Some things bother people, where other couples could care less.

    For me, I do not want my husband watching porn. I am very secure, so it's not insecurity. I feel the same about strip clubs, etc.

    But I think every couple is different on how they feel on the topic. Most of my friends are not Ok with it, but I see a lot of you women are perfectly fine with it, which is fine too.

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    DH and I are religious, and do not feel it's appropriate in a marriage setting.   It wouldn't make me feel insecure, but in my opinion and according to what I believe, it's crossing a narrow path into adultery - getting sexual pleasure outside the marriage. (not to mention the feminist in me feeling that it turns women into sex objects, etc)

    Why do you care what your friends' husbands do?

    DH and I feel this way as well.  I'm a big time prude.  Big time.  Porn and prude don't go together.

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    I like porn more than my husband does. 

    Yes Same here.

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  • We only own two pornos and I think we need more! I used to be a big time prude about it, but I was just insecure. Now I know DH only wants to sleep with me and it only makes my experience better!!
  • i dont mind. sometimes ill watch it alone or ill watch it with him to get more in the mood :D
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