So today we had our first playdate with one of my bestfriends and one of her friends. Their LO's are both 2 months. I was really excited until I soon realized our parenting styles were moajorly different. She let her DD CIO on the playmat basically the whole time. I kept asking her if she wanted me to get her but she informed me that she is trying to teach her DD that she doesn't respond to her cries immediately to teach her patience. WTF?!? I tried to stay composed and told her that her daughter was too young to understand that. I also pointed out that she is crying for a reason and that is her only way of communication. She then also told me hr daughter cries in her crib for an hour everynight before falling asleep. She shuts her daughters bedroom door, then their bedroom door so they don't have to hear her. I can't believe this is going on. It's hard to tell people how to raise their kid especially because she is very outspoken and hard headed. She kept trying to persuade my friend to try this too. I also found out this idiot changes her diaper at 10pm and then not again til the am. Even when her DD wakes up for her mid night feeding. I couldn't believe that either. I was fuming the whole playdate!