So, my DD is 9 weeks old now and my hubby and I have yet to successfully have sex again. We've tried twice since getting the go ahead from my doctor and it just hurt too much each time for it to get very far. The last time felt like there was pinching and also like I was going to tear again. We've made sure to use plenty of lube, but it's not helping a whole lot. Any suggestions?? Please- I'm really down about it, but hubby has been super supportive and patient.