Hey ladies, I'm having a DH issue and I want to see how people who don't know me would react to this situation. It's a little bit of a long drawn out situation, so I'm going to attempt to condense it.
I have a female friend who I've known for over half of my life and she has lately become more of a frieniemy. She (for lack of a better term) gets around. She has done underhanded things (like sleeping with other women's husbands and even her other friend's boyfriends) before, but nothing that was directed towards me, so it never gave me a reason to not be her friend. This was until last year. She told some of H's friends about something personal that I had told her and they went back and told H. He and I had a big falling out about it, but we moved past it.
H has a habit of lying to me and when I catch him, he has the tendancy to say things like, "I didn't remember" or "I didn't know". It's never about big things like where he is, but small things like he didn't move my shoes. But in my eyes a lie is a lie and if you lie about something small, you'd lie about something big. This behavior didn't surface until AFTER we were married.
H owns his own business and she works in the same field. She contacted him and asked him if he had any positions for her. He interviewed her and then hired her. He told me NOTHING of this activity. He gives me random information about his business, but he didn't feel the need to tell me that he hired my friend? That just seems shady to me and I'm pissed. I feel lied to again, and I'm just tired of him being dishonest. I'm not overreacting by being pissed, right. I'm just really tired of him and his shyt!!
Sorry it got so long, but I shortened it as much as I could and still hit the major points.