The arguments over getting pregnant again have steadily become more and more angry. At first he was simply teasing about not wearing condoms ever again and no more birth control as we waiting anxiously for the Docs approval to become intimate again... but as soon as we started having sex he really does refuse to wear condoms and is not happy about the fact that I'm on the mini pill. He calls me selfish and gets very upset and dramatic whenever we talk about it... :(
Don't get me wrong, I WANT another child, but I want to be able to give DD the attention that she deserves. Not to mention the fact that I need time to emotionally and physically prepare myself for another pregnancy. DD was not planned and has taken us both by storm. During the pregnancy, obviously my life was the only one to really change until I delivered. Since then, I've been staying home with baby and breastfeeding, and I therefore take the vast majority of the responsibility for her.
Any advice or opinions on this would be greatly appreciated.