How do you deal with the guilt of leaving LO 5 days a week? My LO is with grandma every day so I know he is loved and taken care of, but I still HATE that it is not one of his parents taking care of him. I don't want him to get the message that grandma is the main caretaker. I worked late last night so got home after he went to sleep and then he slept later today than he normally does so I did not even get to see him this morning- In the past 24 hrs the only time I have spent with him was his middle of the night feeding. I am just struggling with being back at work and GUILT...how do you guys deal- any advice??