A little background (I could go on for days but you are never going to get the full story on her unless you have a few weeks)
I got pregnant in february and had a m/c. Told MIL that we were expecting she said, "Oh, that's nice (insert sarcastic tone) I thought you had other priorities.
Then at 5w I started bleeding, MIL was over and I was crying. She stopped talking on the phone for a second, asked me why I was crying. I told her I was bleeding and she just turns around and continues her convo on the phone. I drive to the hospital because I didn't know what else to do and she drove DH to the hospital (he was painting and had to clean up first) and just dropped him off and went home. Never heard a sorry or anything after the m/c.
We got pregnant again in May. Didn't tell her until around 8 weeks because of her reaction last time plus we had miscarried. Her reaction this time, "Well I hope Maleigh101 is going to finish school." I still have yet to hear a congrats form her. Then proceeds to not tell FIL and when their foster child hears it at school and asks FIL and MIL about it, MIL pretends she doesn't know and says, "Who knows, we're the last to know everything." When DH had already told her, who knows why she kept it from FIL. So that is just a background on how rude she is to me and DH. She has no reason for not wanting us to have a child either. We are married, we have owned our home for 2 years, we both have cars, DH has a college degree and a career and I am finishing college and a SAHW.
Anyways to the point: DH and I have decided to do an elective u/s where we are going to find out the sex of the baby at 16w5d. This place allows 8 friends or family members to come enjoy the experience. We decided to invite FIL and MIL. DH called MIL today and asked her and she said that she would ask FIL if he wanted to go and if he doesn't then she isn't coming. I am so offended. A lot of people don't get the opportunity to experience an u/s of their grandchild and to reveal the sex all together as a family, so it really caught me off guard.
Is it dumb that I am offended by this? If you read all of that thanks I know it was a lot.