And asked that her husband and I no longer text each other.
I am shocked and hurt and sad and a little angry all at the same time.
We all met as families and have known each other for quite some time. I *thought* that our families were friends but she said that she and I are friends and any plans that need to be made should go through the two of us.
That's how "it's done".
I'm upset because there's a ding in our friendship now. I'm upset because she had to ask her husband to stop texting me and me to stop texting him. What did we text about? "Sup. You and kiddo going to the pool today?" "No, too effing hot. Maybe this weekend?".
Or maybe a joke. Whatever.
I was also asked to send the 8 texts I had on my phone to her.
Because, and this is important, they apparently had some trust issue early on in their marriage and he and I texting makes her question him. That sounds like she thinks highly of me too, no?
The texts on his phone were deleted, which is why she asked for mine.
I'm seriously appalled. I text guys all the time. MH's friends, my friends, or at least I thought this guy was a friend but apparently he's just the husband of my friend, who I'm not allowed to text or, I'm assuming, hang out with at the pool.
I told her I texted another friend's H about various stuff and she said "Does she know about that?" Like it's a secret. Or wrong.
Is there some suburban rule that married women can't be friends with married men?
My feelings are so stinking hurt.