The husband and I HAD a name picked out well before we find out we were pregnant. After we found out, we still planned on using said name. Then his step-brother named his new son that very name. Now my husband says the name is tainted and he wont use it.
It was the only name we've ever been able to agree on. These are some names from both of us that the other hasn't 100% vetoed yet.Obviously, we're trying to avoid anything too popular (we're both products of the 80's, so obviously we're named Jennifer & Michael).