I just got done talking with my DH about trying for #2. I have no idea how I was so far off but I thought for sure we would be trying by August. He told me more along the lines of this time, next year. I am so devastated and I can't help but be a little pissed. I know this might sound awful but in addition to loving the idea of having our kids close together, I love the idea of getting my body back (nursing and pregnant). Has anyone dealt with this? How to you deal with being on two separate pages completely for a major decision like this. FWIW - Closer together has always been our plan. DH says he just can't imagine it now.