I'm not a pop nazi or anything, my DD can and has had pop. What I have a problem with is ordering a 2 year old her very own pop to drink when we go out. And we rarely drink pop at home.
The other day we went to McDonald's with my mom, and I ordered DD a happy meal with a milk to drink. My mom was all annoyed, saying "why don't you just order her her own pop? You know that's what she wants!" I said she can have sips of mine if she really wants... Just rubbed me the wrong way.
Part of this stems from my SIL, who has 3 boys, the youngest being the same age as my DD, orders her boys pop to drink when they go out. So since she gets them pop, my mom thinks I should get DD pop too. Just like when her youngest moved to a bed at 18 months, I should have moved DD to a big bed too (I just moved her last week).
Maybe by #3 I'll be more easy going about these things... But I'm far from uptight as it is! Arg.