My dh and I are attending calling hours and a funeral mass for a friend's Mother. Thankfully, it has been a long time since we've had to go to one. What is appropriate to wear? I guess I'm just not sure how dressy we should get. I'm planning on wearing dress pants and a dressier shirt (normally what I wear for work) for the funeral but thought I could be a little more casual for the calling hours. Do you think this would be ok? And do you think it would be alright for my dh to wear suit pants, a button down and tie, but not a suit jacket for the funeral? TIA!