My BF and her husband and DH's BF and his wife are hosing a couples shower for us. There will be 22 adults and 15 kids at the shower. I know they are going to go overboard and since only 2 couples are hosting I know it's going to be $$$ for them.
I'm not sure what to get for hostess/host gifts and how much to spend. I know the girls are doing most of the work but the money is coming from the guys too. Here's what I'm considering:
1. $50 gc to their favorite restaurant and a bottle or 2 of wine per couple
2. $75 or $100 gc to their favorite restaurant per couple
3. $50 gc to restaurant and $50 gc to a spa or Anthro for girls per couple
Are gift cards too impersonal? Any other suggestions? Help!