My hubby just got a letter from his parents, written by his step-mother, letting us know that they think it was financially irresponsible for us to get pregnant and that the choices we made about not living together before we were married were financially irresponsible too.
My hubby and I are religious and made the choice not to live together before we were married because of our beliefs which my step-MIL supposedly shares. The timing of when we conceived was also partly due to our religion (and also due to the fact that we have to live apart now because of his job--absence makes the heart grow fonder :-) ), and we had hoped for more support from them. They don't know anything about our finances, and I don't feel they have room to criticize.
So strange...they acted like they were happy for us and excited about the baby. Now they are criticizing us and it makes me feel like they don't think we should have our baby. I am so hurt by them. :-( Thanks for letting me vent!