MIL wants L to spend the night with her on a Wednesday night. I said no, because I only get to see her 2-3 hours a day Mon-Fri as it is, and I want that time with my baby. I only have a few months left where it's all about L, and I don't want to give any of that time up right now. Also until about two weeks ago I was working six days a week, so for a while there I was seeing her 2-3 hours a day Mon-Sat. I basically will go 48 hours without playing with her if she spends the night on a weekday.
Her reasoning is that my SD wants to have a sleeopver with L. Well, SD is spending every Friday and Saturday night at our house while she's here for the summer, so she will have plenty of sleepovers with L. If SD feels that she needs a mid-week sleepover, she is welcome to come to our house. MIL watches L two days a week so they will still have plenty of time to see her, more time in those two days than I get all work-week long.
I know MIL is giving DH a hard time about me saying no, because he keeps bringing it up, and I know he doesn't really care one way or the other. Am I being unreasonable? I gave in to a weeknight sleepover on my birthday because MIL thought she was doing me a favor by taking her for the night, and I was against it then too but DH talked me into giving it a shot. Well I gave it a shot and I hated not being able to spend awake time with her for so long and I'm getting irritated that this is still bieng discussed after I firmly said no.