I don't know if it's PG hormones or what.... DH and I do not usually argue or fight.... but I was so angry I was screaming at him before. Like... I think I lost my voice. Crying, the whole nine.
We went to look at a Honda Odyssey I have had my eye on. My sister had come over to watch the kids, which was nice because it was just us with the salesguy (who we met yesterday). I was pretty sure we'd be buying this car(minivan) today.
Before we got to the dealer he and I argued about something insignificant. But it set the tone.....
When we got there, we were ready to test drive the Odyssey. I test drove first.... you know, went a couple miles, came back... got the general feel for the car and how it drives. Asked DH is he wanted to drive it, he said sure and gets in the drivers seat. The salesguy is sitting behind us.
About 5 miles down the road, salesguy realizes we're going a little far.... suggests that DH make a right at the next light. DH goes "No, I have to make a stop at a store..."
The thing is.... he wasn't KIDDING!! I couldn't even believe my husband was doing this. And here's the best part - this effing store..... is ANOTHER TOWN AWAY!!! It's about 10-15 minutes away!!! I was like "You've got to be kidding.... DH.... turn around..." Nope. Not kidding. At all.
Takes us all the way out to this store (he says he needed to buy an "instructor" shirt for a class he is teaching tomorrow.... wtf??) Meanwhile we get to this store and it's closed anyway.
Salesguy is really nice about it... "Oh don't worry about it..." "It's ok..."
BUT NO!!! It's NOT OK!!! WTF DH!?!?!?! Why would you do that!?!?!?
I was appalled. And embarrassed. VERY VERY embarrassed. I'm still embarrassed. I was so effing embarrassed at my DH's complete lack of.... etiquette? Common sense? That when we got back to the dealership I couldn't even think of buying the car. I was so fuming mad and we ended up leaving.
DH thinks it's fine... almost "funny" even. I am FUMING. I'm so lividly mad.... not just at WHAT he did, but then his actions AFTERWARD and his complete lack of an apology, complete lack of seeing what he did as WRONG.... that I'm practically seeing red. I feel like I am overreacting but at the same time I can't shake being so angry at what a P.O.S. he behaved like and that is NOT how my husband normally acts. I'm still so FURIOUS!!!!!!!!!
So ladies..... would what my DH did be "OK" with you????? Or am I justified in being appalled and angry at him!?