I will soon be a sahm for a couple of years after dd is born next month. Anyway, I know I will get some obnoxious comments from moms who have no choice but to work. My aunt, for example, was a single mom and envied sahms. She would make comments to my mom all the time about it. She'd call her and be like "hi how are you? what are you doing over there? relaxing?" That used to annoy my mom, because as a sahm, she did all the sahm and traditional wifey duties. Having very opinionated older women in my family, how would you respond to those comments? I know they'll make my blood boil, but I obviously need some assertive yet respectful comebacks. Can you suggest any?