This happened last week and it has been bothering me ever since. I feel weirded out by it, like creeped out kind of. I don't want to talk to anyone I know in real life about it because it feels a bit creepy, so I hope some of you here can just give opinions, I don't know.
The phone rang last week in the morning, caller ID said it was my DH. I answered but there was no reply,. I could hear noise in the background so I waited a bit (sometimes he calls me then he gets interrupted with a work thing so it takes him a few seconds/minutes whatever, to talk to me so I just waited a bit). Still nothing. I was pressing buttons and stuff to try to get him to hear because then it seemed like he must have dialled without realizing it and didnt even know we were on the phone. (It was his cell)
All of a sudden when I am about to hang up, I hear him whistle, like the whistling at a woman whistle, I cant describe it, but do you know the one I mean? I hope so. Anyway, I was like wth and was going to hang up when he noticed the phone and picked it up and said hello. He was surprised as he didnt know the phone was connected, I think he was about to say could he call me back but I said "Who are you whistling at?" He said "No one, I am in my truck" So I replied "Well it wasnt no one since I clearly heard you whistle, so let's try again, who are you whistling at?" He says again "no one" so I just hung up because I was pissed. He called back right away but I didnt answer. I havent brought it up to him again since I dont really know how I feel.
On one hand sure I know a man sees a pretty woman and can appreciate the prettiness, I mean, I see a handsome man out and about and I can appreciate his good looks, so I am not saying he shouldnt see someone and think they are pretty because I see handsome men all the time, but I dont whistle at them and stuff...I mean, to me it is sort of creepy. I sah with our child (2 more on teh way) and we have a great marriage, never problems, really really happy so all in all every other aspect of things is great, but now I cant get it out of the back of my head thinking my dh is driving around whistling at women all day, it is just plain weirding me out....
sorry if this was long.