I posted yesterday about a big issue I've been having with DH. Thank you again to everyone for your support. I wrote DH a letter telling him how I felt. I have tried talking to him and he just gets livid and refuses to talk about it anymore. In the letter, I explained why I felt his Friday nights out were inappropriate even though he was working a lot. I went on to say I felt like even though his words said he wanted to be home with DS and I, his actions said otherwise. I suggested that we go to counseling or take a night out just the two of us to really talk things through. I asked him to consider this because DS is so very worth the work to repair our relationship. When I got home from babysitting yesterday evening, he was being very nice to me and unusually helpful. I asked if he had read the note and if he wanted to talk about it once DS was in bed. I was feeling pretty positive since he seemed to be in good spirits. He turned to me and said, "I'm not even going to comment on your letter. I'm going to get angry and say things that I shouldn't" I told him that wasn't fair and that we really needed to talk. He said he was to angry with me and that he didn't even want to think about it ever again. End.of.story. This was a reaction I was not expecting. He continued to act helpful to me for the rest of the night into this morning. I asked him again to talk to me and he said no. Awesome. I think I'll try another approach and take DS to my mothers for the weekend.