My sister called yesterday to ask permission to bring her new baby (4 months old) to my shower. Of course, I said yes. In fact, I have several friends who will probably bring babies or very young children. No problem.
My sister is very comfortable breastfeeding in public, but she isn't very discreet, and I think that there will be other guests who might be uncomfortable if she were to breastfeed in the middle of the party. We'll be in a restaurant - in a private room, but still in a restaurant. There will be people of all ages, and there will be some men there as well, both young and old. So I just asked my sister if she could refrain from breastfeeding inside the party. She has options: She could plan to breastfeed before and after the party, she could move to a different room to breastfeed during the party, or she could bring a bottle to feed him at any time.
Now my sister is offended. Am I wrong?