Most people we've told outside of family, and really close friends have instantly said, "Well this wasn't planned, right?" SERIOUSLY!!!? You wouldn't say that to someone having their first baby, even if it were true... and why is it such an awful CRAZY thing that we PLANNED to have two babies within 14 months of each other. Yes, I know it will be hard. Yes, I planned this. Please don't ask or assume it was a "mistake"... UGH!