I am not making a statement about CIO or not. Reading that post got me thinking...about "distrusting". Is it so bad? I was a very trusting person(too trusting) and let me tell you, the real world came as a real shock. You can't trust everyone. There are a lot of people in this world that will screw you and treat you badly. Of course you don't want it to the other extreme either. You want your LO to be able to trust some people and develop bonds, especially with you, the parents. Anyway, I know this is pretty random...but it just got me thinking. Sorry.