Help! I'm 25 and have been dating my boyfriend (baby daddy!) 8 months. We're considering getting married for the sole purpose of me getting on his insurance (mine is horrible). We initially wanted to have a traditional wedding after the baby was born so were planning on treating this marriage-for-insurance almost like a secret: no rings, no ceremony, no reception and I wouldn't change my name. The problem is that his family wants us to do a prenup. My family is traditional catholic. They're upset about the baby and just as upset that I'd get married at a courthouse - I can't imagine their reaction to us getting a prenup. I don't want to rush into marriage but feel that if this courthouse wedding is serious enough for a prenup then it should be serious enough not to be a secret. I also dislike the idea of a prenup. I understand it's smart and logical, but resent that he/they want one. Feedback?