I have my big ultrasound on Monday. It is our first baby and we are not finding out the sex. Our baby will be the first grandchild on both side. My husband is the oldest and has 3 brothers & 1 sister. I only have a younger brother. My parents & my in-laws both live about 5 minutes for us. My MIL is a nice lady but she is still a MIL, she is very opinionated! I would really like to have my Mom at the u/s but do not want to ask my MIL. I realize the baby is mine and my husbands but it is my pregnancy. I haven't asked my husband how he feels about me just asking my Mom yet but just wondered what everyone thinks? Is it unfair of me to want to ask just my Mom? I kinda feel like my MIL has a daughter that she will have an opportunity to share special moments with and that I should get to have special moments with my Mom. What do you guys think?