Yeah that's what a fellow working mom of one asked me the other day. I'm like did you stay at home at ALL when you 1st had your LO? Because you obviously don't realize it is a much harder job than working. I have worked since I was 15 (29 now) and the last 6 years was at a high pressure sales job. That was a cake walk compared to staying home with a baby. However, I am very thankful that I can do it and it's very rewarding. I love being able to be with my DD. But how could you ask what do I do? Hello? Maybe take care of a baby among other things. You know what you pay someone to do for you. I cook almost every night, keep my house clean, do all the shopping, am a member of a local moms league and my church and have a baby that constantly needs my attention. Of course I just smiled and said "I've got my hands full". Sorry I just couldn't believe that came from someone who has had a baby.