What do your bonus children call you? We're really struggling here because I have been with my bonus son's father since he was 2 months old, so he has known me his whole life. DH and I were recently married and my bonus son is almost 4. He has referred to me by my first name most of the time since he could talk, but has started calling me mom every now and then. His birth mother found this out and was livid and scolded him and told him that is not acceptable and that he only has and will only have one mom. She also chewed DH out in front of the child about this. Now, my bonus son always acts funny when his mother and I are together and wont talk with me or hug/kiss me goodbye (I drop him off at his moms weekly). He's fine when she is not around but I think he's scared he'll get in trouble if he shows me any affection in front of her. I know this is long but I really don't know what to do! Any advice???