I'm almost 21 weeks and I don't feel the small movements (butterflies) but I think I've startled the baby a couple times. For example, I woke up to go to the washroom the other night and it felt like something exploded in my stomach. It's not painful... just really weird.
I just think it's weird that I would feel this before the "butterflies" I was told that I would feel.
Is this normal?? Has anyone else felt these kind of movements first?