DH and I still have separate bank accounts. We also have joint accounts, but we really just transfer money into a joint account for fixed expenses like mortgage, utility bills, etc. We're both working now, and even though he makes more than me, I end up paying for pretty much everything for DS -- diapers, food, clothes, etc. - just because I'm the one who does most of the shopping. Oh, and for months now, I've also been paying for all our groceries.
I just checked my bank account, and it's really tapped out. A few months ago I had built up a savings account again, and now there's just barely enough in there for if I overdraw my checking account. I just paid for a bunch of clothes for DS at a consignment sale, a bunch of babyproofing stuff at BRU, etc.
BUT, I was about to buy DS's Christmas outfit and a pair of See Kai Runs online, with coupons that expire soon. If I ask DH to pay for them, he will just give me a hard time about what seems like a frivolous purchase, not understanding that the issue is really because of all the months of unequal spending on the basics.
I hate money. Hate it hate it hate it. Or at least I hate having to talk about money. Sigh.