I've been contemplating what I'm going to do for some time now about my Step-MIL and inviting her to the baby shower! She doesn't like me and is not shy about it! After my DH told her we were expecting all she could do is complain about things that I've said to her! (Basically me having an opinion and her not used to anyone giving her there opinion cause she is the queen or course) She didn't say congrats or anything and I'm pretty sure she is not happy with what's going on! Anyway I want to be the bigger person and try to put the past in the past so that my LO can have two grandmas but to be honest I don't even want her around at all! Like not for the baby shower, not after he's born, not at all! My DH is completely fine with her not coming to the baby shower but I know he eventually wants to resolve all these issues! Does this make me a B for not wanting her to come? Should I just invite her? I guess I don't even think she'll come if I do so maybe I should! I dunno!