A guy at work said don't take this personally, but I just don't see you as a mother. I am very matter of fact at work because I'm there to work. When he comes to work complaining about his back I don't baby him. He's a grown man why should I. I was so annoyed I just blankly stared at him and said well I don't really see you as a man. I thought it was so rude of him. Who says that to someone pregnant.