My Father in law was supposed to go over to our house today to figure out what is wrong with our AC. It wont work : ( Well apparently the MIL went along for the ride! She just sent me an email saying they were home AND..... she said...... " Dont get mad but I did some cleaning in your kitchen while waiting on dad." I may sound ungrateful but if I wanted her to clean my kitchen I would ASK. I am one of those people that thinks it is NOT MY PLACE TO do that type of thing in someone elses home. That is my domain. Leave it alone! My husband was raised with her doing EVERYTHING for him, he had NO chores, NO responsibilities, She cleaned his room, did all his laundry even put it in his drawers, did his dishes, cooked every meal for him! She even did all this for him when he was moved out!. And since this was all DONE for him he expects that of me! I let him know that it bothers me and I ask him all the time to help me out. I sent her a reply that said "Thanks, It is hard to keep up with everything when you dont have any help" OMG thanks for letting me vent!