My DD never wants to go down for a nap. First I have tried rocking her, then putting her in her crib but then she wakes up. Then I tried the "baby wise" method with CIO (put still picking her up and visiting every couple of minutes). This seemed to work pretty well but people made me feel like a horrible mom for doing it. I also tried the "baby whisperer" method which hasn't been going well either. By the time we go through the process of picking her up, putting her down she become over tired and then REALLY will never go to sleep (at this point I try the swaddling and the sh, sh, sh'ing). Any suggestions? Please help!