Anyone else have multiple people totally putting pressure on them for one gender or the other? I just don't understand this. Do people not seem to get that I have no say in this. I've actually had people tell me that I would be a horrible mother to a girl so I better hope that it is a boy! WTF! I had another woman actually speak to my stomach and say "if there is a penis in there you better go back inside because I want you go be a girl". My own sister (who is normally the sweetest person) told me "I think a girl would be so much easier and so much more fun but I hope you have a boy". Not that I agree that a girl would be easier or more fun but WTH? If you really believed this, why would you wish a boy on me?
For the most part, I don't think they mean anything by it but it totally pisses me off. DH and I are finding out the gender but we are keeping it to ourselves.