She emails me today to tell me that she bought Dh and I CONDOMS. WTF? I guess she has decided for us that since Patrick wasn't planned, now that he's gone, we shouldn't try again anytime soon?
A) None of your business, mom.
B) I looka t our experience with Patrick as practice for my body. I feel like he was our angel sent to help us prepare for our first outside baby. I've been told for YEARS that I would never conceive, and yet I did, randomly, without trying.... and they say your fertility can increase after a first pregnancy... I guess I feel like he was sent to us to help get me ready for the next one. I'm not saying we're going to TRY, we simply feel that going back to the same method of letting fate decide is the best choice.
C) Non of your business, mom.
I got cranky about it and argued with her a bit, and she pushed back about it, and finally, in frustration, I decided since she wanted to be all up in my business I would let her, and said...
"It doesn't matter anyways, mom, those won't work. We buy Magnums."
Not surprisingly, she stopped emailing me after that.
She's never going to look at DH the same agin, HAHAHA, and I just don't care right now! You want to make a choice like that for me, well, you might as well be informed....