will you? won't you? any reason? also, do you & hour husband agree on how you're going to discipline?
my parents literally beat the crap out of us- i'm not saying they were trying to abuse us, but that's how they were raised & etc. same with my husband's parents. spare the rod spoil the child was their motto.
with that in mind, i do believe in spankings but not to the extent that our parents took it. i'll try to avoid spankings at all costs, but i think, depending on the child, that they are sometimes very necessary.
my husband & i are in about 95% agreement on disciplining practices. we've got a few things to iron out though.