Ok here's my situation. My MIL has like eight grandbabies already and this will be her first grandbaby from her son (my husband). But she hasn't even acknowledged us or congratulated us or anything. Maybe I should be counting my blessing but it bothers me because it is our first child and it is special to us. Also I already know that she is planning a trip in the summer time and I am also planning to have my shower in the summer time. I want my DH to tell her the date so she can schedule accordingly. I would be so angry if didn't go but I would be out of control if she planned her trip knowing the date of the shower.
(Side note: She isn't the nicest women in world either. She has no conversation etiquette and she is just rude to my DH for no reason. My DH is the second out of four kids all of which have multiplied one way or another which is beyond me)
Should I be thanking the heavens that she is not involve or should I say something?