Anyone ever ask themselves why did I marry my DH? Lately I have been asking myself this question , I don't know why? DH is a great father to our son and he is good to me, we rarely argue , and when we do , we do not yell at each other , we end up sitting down and discussing the issue and how we feel , he doesn't complain , and he watches the baby if I decide to go out with the girls for the night. Only thing that is not great is he is so anti family events and anti religion, he considers my mom and Dad and sister and brother his family , but he will not consider my extended family. He respects the fact that i want to raise the baby catholic , but doesn't want anything to do with it. I knew this when I married him and made peace with it , but now that we have a baby , it's getting harder to accept this part of him. I'm afraid that i will let this all get the best of me and ruin my marriage. I love DH and I don't want to lose him , but at the moment it feels as though i have to choose one over the other . ugh .