TTC After a Loss

***January WTO***

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Re: ***January WTO***

  • @reneeannemm  Maybe your hydration is counteracting the Clomid drying things out? Fx for you!

    @mommyamp Welcome! Sorry for your loss and fx you get that rainbow baby soon :smile:
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • MommyampMommyamp member
    edited January 2017
    @laeberge3 Thank you. Praying for a rainbow baby for all of us. Hoping like crazy the "super fertile for 3 months post mc" thing is more than a myth.
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  • @Mommyamp I'm sorry for your losses. I also am hoping being fertile after mc is not a myth. We can all daydream. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @Mommyamp Welcome. very sorry for your loss.

    @laeberge3 You know, I really don't know? I am always very very hydrated and have occasionally wondered if I don't drink too much water to have ewcm. I swapped out some water for the things I hear are good for cm, but so far things are about the same as usual. 50 mg may be too low a dose to interfere with anything. 
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @mommyamp and @uhlease13 - I got pg my third cycle after my first loss but am now entering my fourth cycle after my 2nd loss. Lets hope being fertile post mc extends to 4 cycles? And Im very sorry for your loss mommyamp.

    CD 2. Last cycle was my first cycle temping which I did not do very well with due to the holidays and new pup.  Gonna buckle down and be more consistent with it. Started using FF so I think that will help. Now I need to order new opks - might splurge and do CBs and wondfos this cycle. Still think I have timing issues so would really like to have great timing this cycle and of course get a BFP. haha
  • MommyampMommyamp member
    edited January 2017
    @TScalei I got a rainbow baby 2 cycles post mc last time. Fx for us!
  • I'm at CD6 and this AF has hit me pretty hard. The lingering into day 6 is like AF is taunting me. Ugh. I'm looking forward to FW next week, but I'm also a little anxious about the testing my DH will be having. He's having prostrate trouble, so we're trying to have sperm analysis done as part of his work up. Since we know I have pituitary issues on my side already, we want to know if there's anything on his side we should be considering.
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  • @babypi Sorry for the rough week. FX for good testing results.
  • @babypi. Hope all goes well with the testing 
  • @babypi - I feel that way too when AF is particularly harsh- it's like rubbing salt in the wound. GL with testing!
  • @babypi  Good luck with testing.  Stinks that AF can't even be easy.  
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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  • Thanks ladies! I'm sure everything is fine with DH, but it'll be nice to have that reassurance. Though he dropped a bombshell today that he has to do training all through May in an area of Florida that is questionable for Zika. If we don't have a BFP by then looks like the we'll be benched indefinitely between Zika and deployments this year and next. Really can't catch a break this week with TTC stress. 
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  • Gl @babypi

    Yowza I am aware of my ovaries. I get sharp pains every ten minutes or so on the right side and my breasts are sore af. I don't get O pains at all; I suspect that's what's gonna happen. Come on, egg(s), be healthy and gigantic 
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @reneeannemm  FX for healthy, gigantic and really fertile eggs!!

    I think I go here now : (    Just waiting for the full flow to hit me.  I can feel it in my back a little and there was another temp drop this morning.  

    It's 3 months post mc, I know it's not too long of a time but I'm kinda bummed.  I guess the myth that mcs make you more fertile did not apply to me.  

    Last week I had to call my insurance company for something and I figured I asked about fertility coverage.  My plan seems pretty decent, it'll cover a lifetime of 5 IVF and IUIs and AIs don't count.

     I have a yearly appointment scheduled with my gyn late March.  They had said to call if I didn't get pg again in 6 months.  March would be 5 months.  Hopefully she is receptive and can start some preliminary testing.  
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 good thing about your insurance. But hopefully you won't need to go because you'll have a bfp before then!

    @babypi Sorry for shitty news on timing. That sucks. Fx you'll be pg before May. 
  • Well I haven't caught up on here really. I'm out this cycle. Ugh!! Had to go for that mammogram. Now I need 2 diff kinds of biopsies. They don't think it is anything but they have to make sure and since I will need a mammogram after I can't get pregnant. So frustrating!!!
  • @sprkls8506. I'm so sorry for findings and needing the biopsies.  I hope all goes well with them and no further negative news for you.  
  • @sprkls8506  SO sorry...adding insult to injury.  Good luck with results. 
  • @sprkls8506 hoping it's nothing, sending good thoughts. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • So sorry @sprkls8506 good luck and positive vibes coming your way!
  • So sorry @sprkls8506 - hope it's nothing
  • @sprkls8506  Thoughts and Prayers your way
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Lots of hugs for you @sprkls8506 <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @sprkls8506Sending good thoughts your way! If it helps, I've had two pretty large biopsies and duct removals when the doctors were sure it was bad and everything turned out benign. I was told that happens a lot, but that it's better to be safe than sorry.
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  • Hope you all are doing ok and hanging in there!!!

    im having a bit of a tough time. CD24 and still no positive opk or significant temp change. Frustrating for sure. 

    I have had cramps and pelvic pain for a few days. Hoping that is something. 

    ❤ and good luck to all!!!!
    Me: 35 DH: 32
    Married: June 2012
    TTC #1: Aug/Sept 2016
    BFP: 9/22/16
    D&C: 11/9/16
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  • edited January 2017
    @sprkls8506 Good thoughts coming your way! @laoster Welcome, sorry for your loss. Gl with TTCAL; we're here to help out on bad days or to hopefully answer some questions that might pop up.

    Can I get a chart stalk? I hate this part of waiting, trying to confirm O. Fertility Friend has a very irritating habit of putting my O date on the day of my first positive OPK no matter what my temps do, unless I put two days of positives in a row. I caught my surge (Wondfo) at the very, very beginning, as it was negative earlier in the afternoon and just on the edge of reading positive that evening. To be honest, my reproductive bits hurt and so do DH's and we do not want to HIO today, but I don't want to waste the Clomid. I chart in Celsius, but I think the website will let you change to your very mysterious Fahrenheit. Here is the link to my chart. I think, knowing both my body and my past cycles, that I have ovulated, but it'd be nice to have another opinion or two. Thank you!

    Edit: don't be rude and ignore ppl, renee
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @reneeannmm I think you are right with temp, OPK, and cramping / O pain.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • I'm on my 3rd day of flashing smiley.  Hopefully I get a solid one soon!!
  • I'm trying to pinpoint O... I had the beginning of my surge on the 18th in the morning. And the peak was the next morning. Did FF get my O date right? This is my first time ever charting and opks. 
  • Sorry in advance for my novice charting and interpretation skills 
  • @NYTino24 Thanks a lot. I think we'll leave it be then.

    @justsuzie I often get that fallback rise pattern (only applicable if the temp falls on 2dpo to around coverline) but you may have also O'd on Friday the 20th. With more temps it'll be clearer. How was your CM after CD13?
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @justsuzie

    It could be right, but it may also be on Jan. 20, especially if you had your surge on the 18th and peak on the 19th. I've always ovulated 24-48 hours after my positive OPK reading. My temps also always read below 98 degrees before ovulation and above 98 degrees after ovulation (everyone is different in that regard), but my guess would be you ovulated on Jan. 20, cycle day 15. If you have another high temp tomorrow and the next day, FF may move your ovulation date forward. Hope that helps!
  • @reneeannemm cm was a little chunky and sticky 
  • @justsuzie could still go either way, but ruling out clarifying temps in the next few days I'd go with FF's interpretation for now. It gets easier to read as you have even a couple more charts!
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @justsuzie Are you recording OPKs in FF? Looks good to me, but a few more temps will hopefully make it more clear. My preO temps are usually lower than yours, but this cycle (first since MC) aren't, so I am also having the same issue... except mine haven't dropped yet and I'm on CD15. Sorry I can't help more!
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @justsuzie

    Like @reneeannemm said, it does get much easier to interpret after you've been temping for a few months and have more of a baseline and know what's normal for you. As a rule of thumb, I usually continue to BD every other day after FF pinpoints ovulation until I'm pretty sure FF has my ovulation date right, as I've had a few charts like yours where they showed I ovulated, but then my date was pushed forward a few days later on when my temps increased even more.
  • My temps pre-O after loss were wild and pretty high well after my period had ended, for at least six months. I stopped charting for several months and when I started back up again with acupuncture in November, they were back to stable and low.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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