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***December TWW***

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Re: ***December TWW***

  • stephann85stephann85 member
    edited December 2016
    I am sitting in Lambeau Field trying not to cry. You ladies are so incredibly amazing!
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    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • Man! I wish I was at Lambeau today!! Have fun at the game!
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  • Congrats @stephann85. I can't think of a better Christmas present!! Hope you have 9 uneventful months ahead of you.
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Congrats @stephann85  What an amazing month with lots of BFPs!!
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • dragonfly87-2dragonfly87-2 member
    edited December 2016
    Happy Holidays to all of you ladies! And congrats to all the recent BFPs!

    I am in the TWW now at 10DPO and my insomnia has come back (same thing happened at the same time last cycle and then my temps started dropping/being erratic). I am not sure what my true temps are for today and yesterday because I woke up (and stayed up for a number of hours) and then had to temp an hour later than usual (those temps were quite high and I used them, but I don't trust them). But I am hoping that maybe tonight I can sleep through the night.

    If this continues, I may set up an appointment and discuss testing for progesterone levels. I have read that low progesterone can cause sleep disturbances, especially in the second half of the luteal phase. Has anyone else dealt with low progesterone and experience sleep issues?

    I have been peeing like a race horse for the past few days (also happened last cycle/CP) so not sure if that's a good sign or if it's my "normal" during the LP. Waiting to test on Friday, if AF doesn't show.
  • I believe I'm back here now.  I had positive OPK Monday and Tuesday. Fingers crossed.  Just scheduled appt with OB to discuss options but it's not til 2/8. 
  • I'm back here as well, 5 DPO. Not really sure how I am feeling about things, but we shall see. I also got home from my parents house yesterday and have no idea where I put my BBT. 
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • Good luck ladies
  • Good luck to the ladies joining the TWW. I hope this month is it for a lot more of us! I'm sitting at 6 DPO and even though I'm only 3 1/2 weeks out from my D&C, I'm starting to feel the need to POAS soon. It's going to be tough to wait another week.
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  • The "Charts Like Mine" feature in FF is evil. Even at 2 DPO I'm stalking my own chart to see how many people with my intercourse pattern, O day, and temp averages achieved pregnancy. Evil FF, evil.
  • @RiverSong15 Yes, that is an evil feature.  I spend way too much time during the TWW there. 

    @babypi The struggle is real.  Fx for good news when you do test!

    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • @RiverSong15 I can only imagine how much time I'd waste on that feature if I had it. Maybe a good thing I don't. 

    @laeberge3 Thanks! I think I'm going to wait until Sunday at the earliest so that 2016 can't give me any more knocks. 
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  • Now y'all got me looking at the charts like mine. Haha! I am reading all kinds of into the fact that my boobs aren't sore right now when they usually are by this time in my TWW. Who else is currently reading all kinds of into any and all possible symptoms?
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • I've been MIA and traveling a LOT for the holidays. Including two red eyes during my FW. My temps are a mess and I have no idea where I'm at but fairly sure I'm somewhere around 5DPO. And I'm at my horrible in-laws'. So basically in hell. One test in my bag and I'm saving it for Sunday even though I know it's too early.
  • Ugh...I know some ILs can be awful @migdala. I am at home with lots of tests, but trying to hold off on testing as well.
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • I definitely find myself reading into every possible 'symptom'. I've been nauseated since yesterday, which I would love to attribute to something other than the Chinese food we had the other night. Lol

    @migdala Funny, I'm also at in-laws and only have one test with me. I actually prefer my in-laws house for the holidays though. They don't drive me crazy like my own family. It is super cold in the house though, so it's made temping a challenge. I'm sorry your stay with in-laws isn't pleasant. 
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  • I'm like 5DPO and no symptoms.  I'm not having that urge to POAS.  Maybe it's because I only have one expensive test no cheap ones. Last month I tested like crazy. Just feeling kind of blah bout the whole thing this month.  I have scheduled appt with OB to go over options to try and speed this up as I don't want to waste any more time. I will be 42 in a few months. My appt isn't until February though. 
  • @migdala good luck with the in laws. 

    @mack924 sorry your appointment with the doctor is not until February. When I went to the re the appointment was three months away. Then we had to wait a month and a half for all the test results to come back. I turned 36 last month so I also feel the pressure to get pregnant as fast as possible. 
  • Sorry for the holiday stress @migdala. That's really not cool of your MIL. Also, travel and change in room temp can definitely mess with temps. My temps from last weekend are all jagged because of travel.

    @Mack924 Hopefully this is your cycle, but I'm glad you're feeling zen about it. 

    @Taggarab That was me last cycle. Cramps at 4 DPO? Totes KU. Stuffy nose at 6 DPO? Totes KU. I started testing at 6 DPO because I wanted to be doing something. I'm feeling much calmer this TWW (although I am only 4 DPO). I don't know if I learned my lesson from last cycle that symptoms mean zippity do da, or if temping this cycle is channeling my obsessing in a new direction. Lol. Either way, I'll take the calmer state of mind. I'm pretty hopeful for this cycle, but we'll see what happens.
  • @babypi Glad I'm not the only one who has no complaints about the in-laws! Of course, I'm their wine supplier (I work for a winery so 50% off retail) so they kinda have to like me if they want the fermented grape juice to keep flowing their way. Lol

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    1st MMC 08/13/2016 2nd MMC 02/14/2017
    BFP 06/16/17 Rainbow DS Born 02/05/2018


  • Sorry about the stressful sounding holiday @migdala

    Paging doctor @RiverSong15 ;) Can I please ask what you make of this ridiculousness? According to the chart which cannot be correct I'm currently 17dpo with BFN yesterday. Think maybe I didn't O until cd25? 
    ***TMI Alert***
    The creamy CM I noted on cd's 31 & 32 was white (like creamy CM) but sticky (tacky maybe) and enough for there to be a bunch in my underwear. Sorry about that but that isn't typical for me
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Disregard! The witch heard me talking about her and finally decided to show up
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe. Sorry. I hope next month is better for you!
  • @Mack2342 we're benched this coming cycle so I guess it's just time to sit back and enjoy not having to stress about TTC.
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @SoontobeMommaHowe Sorry for CD1. Your chart is definitely confusing. Based on temps, CD25 or 27 seemed possible, but the positive OPK and CM suggests CD19 or 20, if you disregard temps. I'd bet that's why your LP seemed a little longer. FF just wasn't sure between CD17-20. Hopefully your time on the bench isn't too bad, and I hope treatments go well!
  • @soontobemommahowe sorry about cd1 and sorry about being benched
  • BFN at 10DPO. I started crying for no reason while watching Tv this morning so I'm thinking this is PMS. 
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe I hope you are able to destress this cycle although I know being on the bench isn't always relaxing.
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe. I hope you are not stressed while on the bench
  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe Hoping for stressless benching.  
    @Taggarab Sorry for the BFN : (
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @taggarab sorry for the BFN :-(
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @Taggarab Sorry for the BFN. <3
  • pghrenpghren member
    edited January 2017
    Congrats @Wingless00 and @stephann85 !!!


    @migdala that certainly does not sound like a fun version of chopped ... seems a little cutthroat kitchen


    Thank you to everyone who wished me good luck on betas and suggested I go take them anyway. @RiverSong15 @Taggarab @SP128 @Wingless00 @Hopefulmommy1980 @laeberge3 @brooklyngirl18 @babypi

    I took a break to process everything, but here is the rest of my December saga:

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    FYI the trigger warnings pretty much cover all the triggers this time, so fair warning



    The day I was scheduled for betas and began spotting, the spotting turned into full on heavier than my normal period bleeding. I still took your guys advice and went to Quest to have the vampires suck my blood ... but my script from my midwives wasn't in their system and no one was in at the midwives office to fax it.

    The next day the bleeding increased even passing large clots and tissue, so at this point I knew the jig was up. I had a phone call with one of the midwives on call that night to go over my timeline of everything from my first mc at 9weeks in October, to my first AF after, to my symptoms and tests this time around. I asked her if this would be in my charts as a CP even though I hadn't gotten the betas drawn, she responded by saying that she doesn't like to use the term CP, so it would go in my charts as an early mc at 5weeks ! She did have me go in for bloodwork, and my HCG levels came back at 0. Which didn't change my chart only meant I didn't need another round of tests. 

    End TW****************************************

    See you on the bench @SoonToBeMommaHowe

    And I took the advice on the tequila @amberruka

    Edit: TB ate part of my post
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