Probably posting and ghosting until later this afternoon because of my schedule today, so here goes
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 21/9
Timing: -4, -3, -2, -1, O, +1
Testing: today, BFN
R/R: I tested today even though its early since today I am dealing with chemotherapy drugs, a lot of isoflurane (anesthetic inhalant drug) and x-rays, so I figured I would wanna know so I could maybe bail. At 9 DPO I didn't expect a positive, even if I am pregnant, but dammit...I was hopeful. But its monday, so fuck me, right?
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
I would move into the show Scrubs. I could still do doctory things, even if they are on disgusting humans and not wonderful dogs and cats, and hang out with Turk every day.
Testing: testing out my trigger shot right now so who knows. I have a lot of wondfos to burn through.
R/R: it's Monday and am headed for bloodwork to check my progesterone level.i missed the morning monitoring hours at the closer location so I have to go to the main office which is a bit further away...just want this week to fly by!
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? my current obsession is with the Gilmore Girls so I'll stick with that right now! I'm on season 6 and I can't stop watching
R/R: I am so excited to actually ovulate!! My last cycle was 110 days and I never ovulated so I don't count it in my month/cycle count. I was really worried this cycle would be like that too.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Friends. I've always loved that show. They seemed so close and like they just got to hang out all the time and only sometimes work. That would be nice!
Testing: Negative today going to try to hold out until Wednesday, but let's face it I'll probably POAS again tomorrow morning. I hate literally peeing on all my money, but the idea of knowing one days sooner keeps bringing me back.
R/R: Trying to stay positive and remind myself that 11 DPO is still early and I'm not out until AF shows up. Trying even harder to not SS, but it's hard when you know that these are not your normal PMS symptoms (I know they can change so trying to remember that as well).
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? @Marley629 I love Gilmore Girls! I can't wait for the Netflix show to come out
I would say probably something retro or historical like MadMen or Downton Abbey. I love the costumes!
Testing: Going to try to hold out till Saturday before our Halloween party
R/R:
CS/Q: I took my temp this morning, but I don't know what to make of it since I didnt temp Saturday or Sunday because we were out of town, and I also took it at 6:30 instead of my usual 5:30. Now I'm sure I'll just drive myself crazy trying to analyze it.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Nashville. Even though I'm a horrible singer, I would love to get dressed up, get my hair and make up done, hold a sparkly microphone and sing all night.
R/R: Monday's always suck, BUT I have the office to myself today sooo.. bump & pandora.
CS/Q: not today!
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Hmmm. I love Law & Order SVU, & id love to be a badass detective and help people. But I'm probably too emotionally unstable and would take my work home with me each night and be a hot mess.
@kiwi2628 Sorry for the bfn. Is all that treatment for you or do you work with all that for your job? If the former, I'm so sorry if you're dealing with that. @Marley629 GL with your blood work! @KariAnn323 sorry about the bfn
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 15/4
Timing: -5, -3, -1
Testing: maybe at 10dpo
R/R: a gaveva colleague a ride home on Friday because he car wouldn't start and she brought me a 6 pack of beer today as a thank you. I'd call that a winning Monday!!
CS/Q: I had a nice temp increase this morning, but as we all know, one temp doesn't tell you squat!
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? I'm going to second @mrs35 and say friends! They were always doing fun stuff and lived a pretty sweet lifestyle.
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
Timing: -5, 0 **edit: think it was just those two days... I need to start writing this down.**
Testing: I did test last night, bfn. Period is due tomorrow. I always feel pregnant during the tww's I'm ttc, but its just nerves this time methinks. Will know more tomorrow, I guess...
R/R: just wanted to say that I'm loving this board and getting a lot of great insight into tcc. I thought I was a natural fertility pro but I've def been schooled.
Just: thanks again ladies for sharing your stories and advise.
CS/Q: nope, just waiting for tomorrow to come.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
- I would love if I could live in the Star Trek universe.
@kiwi2638 Scrubs is pretty accurate about working in a hospital. I'm a physical therapist and always have fans pointed in my direction But seriously- I want Turk as a bff, too.
@Kariann323 SS is soooo hard not to do! I swear my body creates symptoms just to play with me. I'm trying to hold out till after my period is late- but will probably buy another test on my way home from work
GTKY: I currently live in an unfunny version of The Office (Monday-Friday at least). I'd go with Downton Abbey! I want to wear pretty outfits and not know what a weekend is.
@kiwi2628 sorry for the BFN -- it's still early though! That's a double dagger on a Monday. I'm expecting a similar outcome when I have to test early this weekend before drinking. @kariann323@dsmom sorry for the BFNs @BertieMeetsGertie people who say 'thank you' with a 6 pack = my kind of people!
Me: 32 H: 32 Married: October 2009 TTC#1: August 2016
R/R: I think my bitchy spell is over which I am sure DH appreciates. We are heading for a hike today. I only work a couple of hours this afternoon. Fresh air is just what I need. I'm big time symptom spotting. I didn't temp so really not sure of my day of ovulation. Just going by CP and CM which I know isn't a solid way but I did have O cramps. We have BD EOD as the doc recommended. I'm just going to try and relax and "go with the flow".
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Probably Heartland as my dream was always to operate a equine training facility.
@kiwi2628@KariAnn323 sorry to hear of the bfn. It is still early. Fx for you both !!
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
R/R: Rant: My pants are tight this morning. Hope I'm just bloated and haven't gained weight. Rave: It's finally not muggy out this morning!!!
CS/Q: na
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Probably The Great Gatsby. I'd love to get dressed up in that era and attend a fancy party!
I was MIA all weekend due to travel and illness, but there's no better way to start a Monday morning than with a little bumpin'.
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD/DPO: 24/12
Timing: -4,-3,-2,-1,O
Testing: BFN at 10DPO. I'll probably POAS again tomorrow if no signs of AF since its DH's and my anniversary. Not feeling optimistic AT ALL but hey, maybe there will be a little anniversary magic?
R/R: After spending most of Friday and Saturday extremely nauseated and spending all day yesterday vomiting uncontrollably, I am feeling a little better this morning. So small blessings. Here's to hoping I can keep everything down today!
CS/Q: Nope. The latter part of my chart is a hot mess.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? My immediate reaction would be to say Grey's Anatomy because it is one of my fav TV shows of all time but Shondra keeps killing everyone off..... Not sure if I would be safe lol
Testing: Friday! Not sure if I'm excited or dreading it...
R/R: Happy Monday everyone!! Not much to rant or rave about yet today. I got to work pretty early this morning so I already feel I'm off to a good start. Also trying to ignore the amount of caffeine I've consumed since Friday. I'm not a big coffee drinker normally, but with DH and I being out of town this weekend, we tried a lot of cool local places and I probably drank at least one a day. I was reading up on something about caffeine and conception and kinda got myself worked up over it, yet here I am sipping my Starbucks cold brew. This is our first cycle truly "trying" so Im trying to take it easy on the SS and BSC google searches for now. I'm honestly just happy to know I ovulated. Its been so cool to record my temps and see a little bit of what my body is actually up to.
CS/Q: Temps still up, luteal phase is looking good so far.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? The Office. It's my favorite show of all time and I feel like I could fit in with the characters so well.
@FLAshley it might help ease your stress and/or SS if you temp up to O and then stop. That way you'd know when O was and have some idea of how your timing was for the month. I know in past cycles when I wasn't temping, I would be worried and SS the whole time during the TWW because I had no idea what my body was doing or where I was in my cycle.
Testing: "I won't test until AF is late" yeah right- tested this morning, BFN.
R/R: THis was a jumbled cycle for me, DH was sick during FW, there is a good chance we missed FW all together YET the BSC SS happened. I was trying so hard to stay realistic then I had these pains I never had before 8DPO and my breasts were itchy beyond belief and my gums were bleeding more. But really what happened is I started a new workout routine, had dry skin, changed my sonic care head. Its crazy what we can make ourselves believe despite being intelligent women. I am having a real tough TTC day and if I get started on all of it then I will have a slippery self pity slope..... all the wine please.
CS/Q: nope, pretty big dip this morning tomorrow or Wednesday for AF is my guess
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Parks and Rec for sure. Pawnee is amazing
Me: 32, DH: 31 Together: 11/2008, married: 3/2014 DH: Type 1 Diabetes, (dx 4/15) Celiac Disease (dx 11/14), Treatment induced Neuropathy of Diabetes (dx 7/15) DH SA: 11/16: low count and low motility DH SA: 12/16: borderline low, count and motility 1/20/17: BFP, 1/24/17: CP 5/17:low AMH (0.89) 6/17: first IUI cycle, 50 mg clomid + ovidrel + IUI: 2 follies, BFN (count 58 million, 97% motility) 7/17: second IUI, 2.5 letrozole, OPK, IUI: 1 follie, BFN (count 9.5 million swimming- dont know percentage) 8/17: third IUI, 5.0 letrozole,
@dsmom@mommytom13 it's the worst! *TW* my bff is 7 months with #5 (it's like her husband looks at her and she gets ku). *TW End* I was telling her what's going on (sore bbs, lower back pain, ALL the naps, vivid dreams, etc) and she's like omg you're ku. It's like really don't say that it just makes me SS more!
thank you everyone for the sorry's for the bfn. Would tag everyone but I'm on my phone.
sorry to everyone who's getting bfns. Just remember it's not over until the witch shows up
Hey! I'm Brittany, I intro'd a few weeks ago then lurked a little more and now I'm here
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 21/8
Timing: -1, O, 1
Testing: Trying to hold out until AF is due
R/R: Stressed out this morning because we got back late from visiting my parents and found a cut on Ace (our dog's) neck. The dog walker never mentioned it and now I feel like a detective trying to figure out what happened while we were gone.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? This is probably a FFFC but I would live the life of a Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast member for a week; just to see what its like to live that lavish lifestyle. I'm sure after a week I would miss my life...
@FLAshley it might help ease your stress and/or SS if you temp up to O and then stop. That way you'd know when O was and have some idea of how your timing was for the month. I know in past cycles when I wasn't temping, I would be worried and SS the whole time during the TWW because I had no idea what my body was doing or where I was in my cycle.
I agree with temping, but not stopping after O because it does help with setting expecations. A temp drop is how I know my period is coming and that the spotting I'm having is not the spotting that is common in early pregnancy. That keeps me from being hopeful and then horribly disappointed. As with all temping, you just have to stop yourself from looking at individual temps as a sign of anything (e.g. a random temp dip at 6dpo does not mean you implanted, and a temp rise one day does not mean you're going triphasic), with the exception of a temp drop around 12/13 DPO, whatever is normal for you (for me it's 12).
Also, regarding caffeine, I asked my RE about it and he said the typical "We actually don't know for sure" but he said under 200mg a day is generally acceptable. One or two cups of coffee is ok, just not five or six. And he nixed my 5-Hour Energies. Jerk.
Month/Cycle: 4/4 post-myomectomy
CD/DPO: 18/4
Timing: -2, IUI on O
Testing: Betas 11/4, may test earlier so I'm not too anxious about the test.
R/R: I'm exhausted and just unmotivated to work this week.
CS/Q: Nah.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Harry Potter! I want to be a wizard!!
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
R/R: So I didn't end up going to a pumpkin patch yesterday because H's siblings didn't want to go. It was disappointing
CS/Q: None
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? The 7 Realms novels. ETA: forgot to say why. Um, idk, I just really like the books and the characters. I would like to be friends with them.
R/R: Thank you to everyone who tried to chart stalk yesterday, and sorry I didnt respond! My DH and I got caught up in pumpkin carving and I never got back on, so my bad.
CS/Q: Im going to post my chart. I had a HUGE temp drop yesterday (as I posted in TWW sunday), and I am a bit confused. I usually get some mini drop around now, but I have never fallen below coverline, or had it mess with my O date on FF. I went back up today, BUT Im still not as high as I usually am at this time. I would love some insight, and im wondering about the fallback-rise that some of you talk about, is it good? bad? thoughts? thank you all in advance, and Ill be on throughout today so Ill be able to answer questions!
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? If it was a Book, I would have to go with Harry Potter! I would love to have my letter to Hogwarts! For TV I would have to go with Gilmore Girls. I would love to live in stars hollow and be friends with them all!
BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16 BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17 BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19 BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19 BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2 Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage IVF started Feb 2020 retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal. Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Mommy to a super cute havanesse puppy and baby boy!
@mrs35 yay for ovulation - that's half the battle!
@kariAnn323 Sorry about the BFN. My SS have been offside the last couple of days. I've also had crazy vivid dreams the last couple of days, along with a ton of other SS, but I'll save myself the embarrassement
@littlebug2010 It's normal to get a dip early in the TWW and it usually means nothing (especially at 4dpo, since that would be too early for implantation). As long as your temps are back up above coverline, you're fine.
@britters314 Thank you! Ive had small dips before, but none like this. It actually moved my O date and pushed my coverline down yesterday. The temp today moved it back to what it was before that temp, and Im sure I O'd when FF says, so It was worrying. Thanks for the confidence boost.
**TW Loss/pregnancy mentioned** Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16 BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17 BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19 BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19 BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2 Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage IVF started Feb 2020 retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal. Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Mommy to a super cute havanesse puppy and baby boy!
@littlebug2010 I lurkingly (lurkingly? going with it) posted yesterday that the link to your chart isn't working because it's missing the : between the https and //! If you add it back manually, it works
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 22/3 (or 1... see below)
Timing: -4, -2, 0, +1
Testing: Not yet
R/R: Had such an amazing relaxing weekend with H at home and am SO excited to finally get CH! But I think FF is going to change that O date to yesterday...
CS/Q: If I get two more high temps at/above today's temp, FF moves my O date to yesterday which makes a LOT more sense to me based on: the positive OPKs (surge lasted 36-48 hrs), CP/CM (although I never got EWCM... ugh), EPIC ovulatory pain on Saturday, and a coverline that actually covers my phase 1 temps. So tomorrow I might change have to change the above to 2 DPO, which just prolongs the wait, but doesn't change much otherwise I suppose. Opinions welcome
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? I'm with @eggplantface : Harry Potter. NO QUESTION!!
Me: 28 I MH: 27 Married August 2016 TTC #1 September 2016 BFP 10/31/16 EDD 7/16/17
Testing: Thursday night probably... or Friday morning. If I haven't started spotting.
R/R: Ughhhhhh my chart is SO PRETTY and it just keeps getting prettier every day. I'd say I'm not getting my hopes up but that would be a dirty, dirty lie.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Harry Potter 10000000% as long as I could be a witch.
Wow, this post is active today! It seemed almost dead at the end of last week. I can't keep up right now so I'll be back later for comments.
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 27/11
Timing: -4, -2, -1
Testing: Tested again this morning and another BFN.
R/R: Still sick and not taking any medicine in case I happen to be KUd (this, why I'm testing now). I of course think I am since my face normally breaks out a few days before AF and hasn't yet. The only times that doesn't happen is when I was on BCP or KUd. But I doubt I am and then I'll be sad both because I'm not and because I could be taking medicine and feeling better.
CS/Q: Not really a question. Last month my temps did a steady decline from 10DPO until AF showed. This month I'm so up and down so who knows. Sickness probably isn't helping.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Probably a big UO here. I'm going with a children's show, "Sid the Science Kid." Everyone is always so happy and optimistic. Nothing bad ever happens. Plus they get to do all these science experiments which are fun! The only thing is I wouldn't want their annoying voices
***TW in Siggy*** Me: 34 / DH: 33 Married: Nov 2011 TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014 TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017
@WillRunForWine21 Ugh, sorry about the bad TTC day and the BFN. Take good care of yourself today.
@FLAshley I'll put in another vote for temping til O. I know for me doing it during the TWW would make me CRAZY and stressed, but I can't tell you how nice it is to know for sure that you O'ed.
Month/Cycle: 6/4 (3 TTCAL)
CD/DPO: 18/3
Timing: Every day during FW
Testing: Not til CD26/11DPO
R/R: I was VERY skeptical about temping, but I have to admit, I'm SO happy I know when I O'ed! Even more excitingly, I'm heading to San Francisco to visit my best friend this morning!
CS/Q: *TW* I entered in my past several months of data to FF. In May, I got KU, but in June, I had a MMC/D&C. I didn't get AF again until the end of July. FF shows that time as a 90 day cycle and now it has my average cycle length at 40, when, aside from the loss, the longest cycle I've ever had is 28 days. Should I just delete all the pre-MC cycles? Is there any other way to get that one cycle not included? *End TW*
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Low-key, I already live in 30 Rock, but I'm gonna say Clueless, my favorite movie, if mostly for the clothes and houses!
TTC #1: 4/16 BFP #1: 5/16 MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16 BFP #2: 10/16 Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
@antoto yikes! Ok! I'll try to grab H between work and water polo later, might be a challenge, but even if I O'd yesterday that would be a good idea so I'm going to try. And also: your chart is just SO BEAUTIFUL!! FX!!
Me: 28 I MH: 27 Married August 2016 TTC #1 September 2016 BFP 10/31/16 EDD 7/16/17
CS/Q: If I get two more high temps at/above today's temp, FF moves my O date to yesterday which makes a LOT more sense to me based on: the positive OPKs (surge lasted 36-48 hrs), CP/CM (although I never got EWCM... ugh), EPIC ovulatory pain on Saturday, and a coverline that actually covers my phase 1 temps. So tomorrow I might change have to change the above to 2 DPO, which just prolongs the wait, but doesn't change much otherwise I suppose. Opinions welcome
Yeah, I think you're right, it'll change to Sunday, most likely, depending on when you typically O after a +OPK.
@littlebug2010 Like @britters314 said, one temp dip isn't anything to worry about. Any number of things could have affected it. A fallback rise isn't good or bad, it just is.
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
@pepper16 and others who had issues with it yesterday, I just updated my siggy, hopefully that works better!
@eggplantface Thanks! Its good to hear from others that this isnt something to worry about!
**TW Loss/pregnancy mentioned** Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16 BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17 BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19 BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19 BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2 Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage IVF started Feb 2020 retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal. Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Mommy to a super cute havanesse puppy and baby boy!
@eggplantface@antotoSo..... I just tried inputting false highs over the next few days to test it out ("just one more time! just to see!") and sure enough CH moved to Sunday. But then I deleted the false temps and... it won't move back (despite there only being 1 high temp post O). WHATEVER. I'll just say I O'd yesterday and MOVE ON with my life?
Me: 28 I MH: 27 Married August 2016 TTC #1 September 2016 BFP 10/31/16 EDD 7/16/17
LOL @peppers16 yeah I mean you have such good timing at this point you can probably just call it good and sit back and relax as you get the next couple days of temps in!
Re: TWW Monday 10/24
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 21/9
Timing: -4, -3, -2, -1, O, +1
Testing: today, BFN
R/R: I tested today even though its early since today I am dealing with chemotherapy drugs, a lot of isoflurane (anesthetic inhalant drug) and x-rays, so I figured I would wanna know so I could maybe bail. At 9 DPO I didn't expect a positive, even if I am pregnant, but dammit...I was hopeful. But its monday, so fuck me, right?
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
I would move into the show Scrubs. I could still do doctory things, even if they are on disgusting humans and not wonderful dogs and cats, and hang out with Turk every day.
CD/DPO: 18/4
Timing: -2, 0
Testing: testing out my trigger shot right now so who knows. I have a lot of wondfos to burn through.
R/R: it's Monday and am headed for bloodwork to check my progesterone level.i missed the morning monitoring hours at the closer location so I have to go to the main office which is a bit further away...just want this week to fly by!
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
my current obsession is with the Gilmore Girls so I'll stick with that right now! I'm on season 6 and I can't stop watching
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
CD/DPO: 20/4
Timing: -5, -2, O
Testing: not anytime soon.
R/R: I am so excited to actually ovulate!! My last cycle was 110 days and I never ovulated so I don't count it in my month/cycle count. I was really worried this cycle would be like that too.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
Friends. I've always loved that show. They seemed so close and like they just got to hang out all the time and only sometimes work. That would be nice!
CD/DPO: 26/11
Timing: -4, -1, O
Testing: Negative today going to try to hold out until Wednesday, but let's face it I'll probably POAS again tomorrow morning. I hate literally peeing on all my money, but the idea of knowing one days sooner keeps bringing me back.
R/R: Trying to stay positive and remind myself that 11 DPO is still early and I'm not out until AF shows up. Trying even harder to not SS, but it's hard when you know that these are not your normal PMS symptoms (I know they can change so trying to remember that as well).
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
@Marley629 I love Gilmore Girls! I can't wait for the Netflix show to come out
I would say probably something retro or historical like MadMen or Downton Abbey. I love the costumes!
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
CD/DPO: 25/8
Timing: -1, O
Testing: Going to try to hold out till Saturday before our Halloween party
R/R:
CS/Q: I took my temp this morning, but I don't know what to make of it since I didnt temp Saturday or Sunday because we were out of town, and I also took it at 6:30 instead of my usual 5:30. Now I'm sure I'll just drive myself crazy trying to analyze it.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Nashville. Even though I'm a horrible singer, I would love to get dressed up, get my hair and make up done, hold a sparkly microphone and sing all night.
@Marley629 GL with your blood work!
@KariAnn323 sorry about the bfn
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 15/4
Timing: -5, -3, -1
Testing: maybe at 10dpo
R/R: a gaveva colleague a ride home on Friday because he car wouldn't start and she brought me a 6 pack of beer today as a thank you. I'd call that a winning Monday!!
CS/Q: I had a nice temp increase this morning, but as we all know, one temp doesn't tell you squat!
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
I'm going to second @mrs35 and say friends! They were always doing fun stuff and lived a pretty sweet lifestyle.
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
CD/DPO: 21/6
Timing: -4,-2,-,1,+1
Testing: This weekend before Halloween partying
R/R: It's already been such a Mondayish Monday.
CS/Q: --
GTKY: I currently live in an unfunny version of The Office (Monday-Friday at least). I'd go with Downton Abbey! I want to wear pretty outfits and not know what a weekend is.
@kiwi2628 sorry for the BFN -- it's still early though! That's a double dagger on a Monday. I'm expecting a similar outcome when I have to test early this weekend before drinking.
@kariann323 @dsmom sorry for the BFNs
@BertieMeetsGertie people who say 'thank you' with a 6 pack = my kind of people!
Married: October 2009
TTC#1: August 2016
DD Born 10/20/17
CD/DPO: 23/5?
Timing: Atleast EOD
Testing: Not for a bit.
R/R: I think my bitchy spell is over which I am sure DH appreciates. We are heading for a hike today. I only work a couple of hours this afternoon. Fresh air is just what I need. I'm big time symptom spotting. I didn't temp so really not sure of my day of ovulation. Just going by CP and CM which I know isn't a solid way but I did have O cramps. We have BD EOD as the doc recommended. I'm just going to try and relax and "go with the flow".
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
Probably Heartland as my dream was always to operate a equine training facility.
@kiwi2628 @KariAnn323 sorry to hear of the bfn. It is still early. Fx for you both !!
Me 27 DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
Married: 6/10/11
*TW BFP: 12/4/16 EDD: 8/12/17
Married: 6/10/11
*TW BFP: 12/4/16 EDD: 8/12/17
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD/DPO: 24/12
Timing: -4,-3,-2,-1,O
Testing: BFN at 10DPO. I'll probably POAS again tomorrow if no signs of AF since its DH's and my anniversary. Not feeling optimistic AT ALL but hey, maybe there will be a little anniversary magic?
R/R: After spending most of Friday and Saturday extremely nauseated and spending all day yesterday vomiting uncontrollably, I am feeling a little better this morning. So small blessings. Here's to hoping I can keep everything down today!
CS/Q: Nope. The latter part of my chart is a hot mess.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
My immediate reaction would be to say Grey's Anatomy because it is one of my fav TV shows of all time but Shondra keeps killing everyone off..... Not sure if I would be safe lol
Married: October 2014
TTC#1:May 2016
BFP: 11/16/16 EDD: 7/30/17
4 fur babies
CD/DPO: 27/8
Timing: -3, -1
Testing: Friday! Not sure if I'm excited or dreading it...
R/R: Happy Monday everyone!! Not much to rant or rave about yet today. I got to work pretty early this morning so I already feel I'm off to a good start. Also trying to ignore the amount of caffeine I've consumed since Friday. I'm not a big coffee drinker normally, but with DH and I being out of town this weekend, we tried a lot of cool local places and I probably drank at least one a day. I was reading up on something about caffeine and conception and kinda got myself worked up over it, yet here I am sipping my Starbucks cold brew. This is our first cycle truly "trying" so Im trying to take it easy on the SS and BSC google searches for now. I'm honestly just happy to know I ovulated. Its been so cool to record my temps and see a little bit of what my body is actually up to.
CS/Q: Temps still up, luteal phase is looking good so far.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
The Office. It's my favorite show of all time and I feel like I could fit in with the characters so well.
@julesdp your gif is my GTKY inspiration
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 29/13
Timing: -2, -1
Testing: "I won't test until AF is late" yeah right- tested this morning, BFN.
R/R: THis was a jumbled cycle for me, DH was sick during FW, there is a good chance we missed FW all together YET the BSC SS happened. I was trying so hard to stay realistic then I had these pains I never had before 8DPO and my breasts were itchy beyond belief and my gums were bleeding more. But really what happened is I started a new workout routine, had dry skin, changed my sonic care head. Its crazy what we can make ourselves believe despite being intelligent women. I am having a real tough TTC day and if I get started on all of it then I will have a slippery self pity slope..... all the wine please.
CS/Q: nope, pretty big dip this morning tomorrow or Wednesday for AF is my guess
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
Parks and Rec for sure. Pawnee is amazing
Together: 11/2008, married: 3/2014
DH: Type 1 Diabetes, (dx 4/15) Celiac Disease (dx 11/14), Treatment induced Neuropathy of Diabetes (dx 7/15)
DH SA: 11/16: low count and low motility
DH SA: 12/16: borderline low, count and motility
1/20/17: BFP, 1/24/17: CP
5/17:low AMH (0.89)
6/17: first IUI cycle, 50 mg clomid + ovidrel + IUI: 2 follies, BFN (count 58 million, 97% motility)
7/17: second IUI, 2.5 letrozole, OPK, IUI: 1 follie, BFN (count 9.5 million swimming- dont know percentage)
8/17: third IUI, 5.0 letrozole,
thank you everyone for the sorry's for the bfn. Would tag everyone but I'm on my phone.
sorry to everyone who's getting bfns. Just remember it's not over until the witch shows up
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
Parks and Rec aside, I'm sorry for the rough TTC day Treat yo' self today (clothes, fragrances, mimosas, fine leather goods)
Married: October 2009
TTC#1: August 2016
DD Born 10/20/17
CD/DPO: 18/2
Timing: -3, -2, -1, O, +1
Testing: not yet...
R/R: Got DH's SA back, all normal...yay!!!
CS/Q: none right now
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Great Gatsby!! Would love to party with those folks...
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 21/8
Timing: -1, O, 1
Testing: Trying to hold out until AF is due
R/R: Stressed out this morning because we got back late from visiting my parents and found a cut on Ace (our dog's) neck. The dog walker never mentioned it and now I feel like a detective trying to figure out what happened while we were gone.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? This is probably a FFFC but I would live the life of a Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast member for a week; just to see what its like to live that lavish lifestyle. I'm sure after a week I would miss my life...
Also, regarding caffeine, I asked my RE about it and he said the typical "We actually don't know for sure" but he said under 200mg a day is generally acceptable. One or two cups of coffee is ok, just not five or six. And he nixed my 5-Hour Energies. Jerk.
Month/Cycle: 4/4 post-myomectomy
CD/DPO: 18/4
Timing: -2, IUI on O
Testing: Betas 11/4, may test earlier so I'm not too anxious about the test.
R/R: I'm exhausted and just unmotivated to work this week.
CS/Q: Nah.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
Harry Potter! I want to be a wizard!!
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
CD/DPO: 27/11
Timing: -5, -4, -2, -1
Testing: Not unless my period is late
R/R: So I didn't end up going to a pumpkin patch yesterday because H's siblings didn't want to go. It was disappointing
CS/Q: None
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
The 7 Realms novels. ETA: forgot to say why. Um, idk, I just really like the books and the characters. I would like to be friends with them.
CD/DPO: 20/5
Timing: really good
Testing: Nov 3
R/R: Thank you to everyone who tried to chart stalk yesterday, and sorry I didnt respond! My DH and I got caught up in pumpkin carving and I never got back on, so my bad.
CS/Q: Im going to post my chart. I had a HUGE temp drop yesterday (as I posted in TWW sunday), and I am a bit confused. I usually get some mini drop around now, but I have never fallen below coverline, or had it mess with my O date on FF. I went back up today, BUT Im still not as high as I usually am at this time. I would love some insight, and im wondering about the fallback-rise that some of you talk about, is it good? bad? thoughts? thank you all in advance, and Ill be on throughout today so Ill be able to answer questions!
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
If it was a Book, I would have to go with Harry Potter! I would love to have my letter to Hogwarts! For TV I would have to go with Gilmore Girls. I would love to live in stars hollow and be friends with them all!
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
@mrs35 yay for ovulation - that's half the battle!
@kariAnn323 Sorry about the BFN. My SS have been offside the last couple of days. I've also had crazy vivid dreams the last couple of days, along with a ton of other SS, but I'll save myself the embarrassement
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
@littlebug2010 I lurkingly (lurkingly? going with it) posted yesterday that the link to your chart isn't working because it's missing the : between the https and //! If you add it back manually, it works
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 22/3 (or 1... see below)
Timing: -4, -2, 0, +1
Testing: Not yet
R/R: Had such an amazing relaxing weekend with H at home and am SO excited to finally get CH! But I think FF is going to change that O date to yesterday...
CS/Q: If I get two more high temps at/above today's temp, FF moves my O date to yesterday which makes a LOT more sense to me based on: the positive OPKs (surge lasted 36-48 hrs), CP/CM (although I never got EWCM... ugh), EPIC ovulatory pain on Saturday, and a coverline that actually covers my phase 1 temps. So tomorrow I might change have to change the above to 2 DPO, which just prolongs the wait, but doesn't change much otherwise I suppose. Opinions welcome
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? I'm with @eggplantface : Harry Potter. NO QUESTION!!
Married August 2016
TTC #1 September 2016
BFP 10/31/16
EDD 7/16/17
Month/Cycle: 7/7
CD/DPO: 25/9
Timing: 0, -3, -5
Testing: Thursday night probably... or Friday morning. If I haven't started spotting.
R/R: Ughhhhhh my chart is SO PRETTY and it just keeps getting prettier every day. I'd say I'm not getting my hopes up but that would be a dirty, dirty lie.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Harry Potter 10000000% as long as I could be a witch.
Married: June 2015
TTC #1: June 2016
BFP: 11-24-16 ~ EDD 8-9-17
IT'S A BOY!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 27/11
Timing: -4, -2, -1
Testing: Tested again this morning and another BFN.
R/R: Still sick and not taking any medicine in case I happen to be KUd (this, why I'm testing now). I of course think I am since my face normally breaks out a few days before AF and hasn't yet. The only times that doesn't happen is when I was on BCP or KUd. But I doubt I am and then I'll be sad both because I'm not and because I could be taking medicine and feeling better.
CS/Q: Not really a question. Last month my temps did a steady decline from 10DPO until AF showed. This month I'm so up and down so who knows. Sickness probably isn't helping.
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why?
Probably a big UO here. I'm going with a children's show, "Sid the Science Kid." Everyone is always so happy and optimistic. Nothing bad ever happens. Plus they get to do all these science experiments which are fun! The only thing is I wouldn't want their annoying voices
***TW in Siggy***
Me: 34 / DH: 33
Married: Nov 2011
TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014
TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017
@WillRunForWine21 Ugh, sorry about the bad TTC day and the BFN. Take good care of yourself today.
@FLAshley I'll put in another vote for temping til O. I know for me doing it during the TWW would make me CRAZY and stressed, but I can't tell you how nice it is to know for sure that you O'ed.
Month/Cycle: 6/4 (3 TTCAL)
CD/DPO: 18/3
Timing: Every day during FW
Testing: Not til CD26/11DPO
R/R: I was VERY skeptical about temping, but I have to admit, I'm SO happy I know when I O'ed! Even more excitingly, I'm heading to San Francisco to visit my best friend this morning!
CS/Q: *TW* I entered in my past several months of data to FF. In May, I got KU, but in June, I had a MMC/D&C. I didn't get AF again until the end of July. FF shows that time as a 90 day cycle and now it has my average cycle length at 40, when, aside from the loss, the longest cycle I've ever had is 28 days. Should I just delete all the pre-MC cycles? Is there any other way to get that one cycle not included? *End TW*
GTKY: If you could live in a book, TV show or movie, what would it be and why? Low-key, I already live in 30 Rock, but I'm gonna say Clueless, my favorite movie, if mostly for the clothes and houses!
BFP #1: 5/16
MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16
BFP #2: 10/16
Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
Married August 2016
TTC #1 September 2016
BFP 10/31/16
EDD 7/16/17
@littlebug2010 Like @britters314 said, one temp dip isn't anything to worry about. Any number of things could have affected it. A fallback rise isn't good or bad, it just is.
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
@eggplantface Thanks! Its good to hear from others that this isnt something to worry about!
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Married August 2016
TTC #1 September 2016
BFP 10/31/16
EDD 7/16/17