Wow does google know how to target me or what? I've been seeing ads for Ava on every social media I use and site I visit!
I don't know anyone who used/uses it. The site has positive testimonials (obviously, it's their own site) but I'm looking for real feedback. Honestly, I think it's worth the money if it does everything it's supposed to and is a real help in tracking your system but if it lacks or isn't much more accurate than a wondofo strip, I'd rather not waste the money.
Success stories or otherwise? Is it relatively user friendly? Would love some feedback!
sounds great... but given that its 200 bucks and I've never heard of it until now.... I'm gonna pass for the moment
Angel Babies 1&2 2/14/09 DS born 3/11 Angel Baby 3 6/28/11 9/5/17 BFP!! divorced October 2014 9/6/17 hCG 88 progesterone 9.1 (prometrium started) Married DH 10/15 DH's DS born 6/09 9/8/17 hCG 242!!! Not preventing since 11/15 EDD 5/8/18 Adjusted 5/15/18 TTC since 1/1/16 9/27/17 we have a heart beat!
I've seen tons of ads for it. Even if I weren't starting the IVF process, it wouldn't have worked for me because it doesn't work/isn't accurate for women with cycles outside the 23-35 day range (I read that as a response from the mfr on Facebook, I looked but can't find it again.) My cycles were 50 days, so useless to me. It's also not currently helpful for women with PCOS, though they hope to add that in the future. It also does not currently detect annovulation, though they hope to add in the future. You can't use this watch without the app so you also need a smartphone. I personally feel like it's a lot of money to spend on a TTC device when a BBT is $7 and OPKs are around $20 for 50 of them. If you get KU the first few cycles, then you spent $200 for just a couple cycles that you could have achieved the same result with temping and OPKs. By the time you TTC a sibling, it might not be supported any longer cuz a new model might be out. If money isn't an issue and you have a typical cycle, then sure it sounds cool.
Me: 33 DH: 31 DS: 5 years old TTC #2 since August 2015 July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts November 2016: FET#1 = chemical January 2017: FET#2 = chemical March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
@Megzb510 hit my issue with it on the head. I actually saw quite a few ads for it too (creepy stalking Facebook...) but my main issue with it is that my cycles are irregular and are rarely under 35 days. I know that their website doesn's say that it won't necessarily work for cycles longer than 35 days, the fact that it hasn't been tested is enough to prevent me from spending the money.
I have seen tons of ads for it as well. I must admit that I did break down & buy a wearable BBT tracker called iFertracker... I work changing shifts and wake up a lot in the night, plus DH is an incredibly light sleeper with difficulty getting back to sleep and the beeping from Mabis is enough to wake him up. I worried about accuracy temping 1 night at 5 AM and another morning at 9AM and also about pissing off DH. My fears were somewhat confirmed when I found my temps to be erratic using waking temp. So I just shelled out the $140 bucks for iFertracker on Amazon. This way, I should get a true BBT rather than waking temp, which requires more consistency for many women.
Raaing Medical updated the app while I was on vacation and the new version wouldn't sync temps for 5 or 6 days, I was so annoyed. On the plus side, their customer service was responsive and they did fix the issue. But other than that is has been working well for me and even gives me notifications if there wasn't enough data to create a reliable temp (I didn't sleep enough) or when my temp spike was sufficient to imply ovulation.
The thing is literally double stick taped under your armpit with a temperature sensor that is in constant contact, but it is so small I don't even notice. The (few) reviews on Amazon implied that a few users experience rashes from taping the device, some of them see a short battery life, and the app isn't user friendly. Other reviews were mostly positive. I would agree with the app complaints but I haven't experienced any other issues (and I just take the temp and put it into FF anyway).
However, this device is not predictive of FW so I only got it for accuracy reasons, and also convenience since I don't have to wake up early just to temp and don't have to wake up DH. I can't say I'd recommend it yet, but it could be worth looking into if you are worried about those same problems. I am not sure what data Ava uses to predict FW but speculating on the issues it has recognizing anovulation or working for irregular/lengthy cycles it may just be using previous cycles to predict your current cycle.
Me (28) & DH (35) Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014 TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
NTNP April 2018. BFP 5/2018 EDD 1.29.19 *Team Green*
I've been using the ava bracelet for about two weeks. So far I really like it. It predicted my ovulation date and after a few days actually moved it up, I'm assuming because of data it pulled from me when I slept.
Here is some background: I went off birth control in Feb and was using OPK and temping BBT to find my fertile window and confirm ovulation. The first two months I found I ovulated on day 21 of a 30 day cycle. The temping and peeing was pretty consuming and my husband had to travel a lot for the summer so I just let fertility friend predict my fertile window based on those two months and when my period was. So naturally it kept predicting O on day 21. My cycles were 30 days for the first three months off bc then started to waver by 1-4 days (28, 31, 34, 29 were my last four.
So I ordered the ava bracelet and started wearing it this month. It told me I was at high fertility on day 10 of my cycle and predicted ovulation on day 16. Since I though I was going to ovulate on day 21, at first I was frustrated. Was this expensive bracelet no better than a counting app that was assuming I was like most women that ovulate around day 14? But then the next day it suddenly changed and said I was now in peak fertility and that ovulation was going to happen on day 13 of my cycle. I can't imagine it would suddenly change like that unless some data it collected from me made it change its prediction. Perhaps my luteal phase actually changed over the last few months and Ive been timing sex all wrong. Perhaps thats the reason I haven't had much luck getting pregnant. Not sure but if it is true Im super glad to have found that out. Ive heard over and over that luteal phases don't really change that much but I've also read some other sources say it can alter after coming off of bc. I typically don't produce much cervical mucus but I actually was finding small amounts of ewcm when I wiped during the time ava said I was fertile. That added some credibility to the prediction.
Anyways, if its accurate it is a hell of lot easier than opks and temping etc. I think next month I will temp and see if the data matches up with what the bracelet predicts.
Me: 30 | DH: 28
Together since 2013 | Married 2014 TTC since March 2016 1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and TI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN Dx: unexplained & mild MFI | Rx: Femara w/ trigger & IUI 1st IUI: BFP. Chemical Pregnancy 2st IUI: BFN 3rd IUI: BFN 1 round femara 7.5: BPF! Due date March 2018
Raise your hand if you were in TTGP when this was posted, and you're still here. I didn't even realize it was almost a year ago. Ugh.
TTC #1 since September 2014 Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI
(count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low
progesterone Check out my Infertility blog Check out my Infertility Instagram
Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015 BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015 BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015 BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018 BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015 Met with OBGYN in January 2016 Me: all clear, H: OAT November 2016: HSG = All
Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt
#1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17 December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC) Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA) FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018 May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus" FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019 Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! Lost Baby A 02 July 2018 Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018 Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
Me: 45 OH: 42 Beloved SS: born 12/2011 TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016 **TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW** August 2016 - dx with DOR Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T May 2017 - began freezing sperm June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
@kd0202 Since you have the bracelet, do you have a friend referral code? I want to get one for my sister who has been TTC for 3 years.
@spcraig Does your sister want one of these? If she's been unsuccessfully ttc for 3 years, she almost certainly needs intervention beyond a device to track her temperature.
I'm only at the one year mark and if someone got me this I would be frankly insulted. I wouldn't get her anything unless she has expressed she wants it.
@kd0202 Since you have the bracelet, do you have a friend referral code? I want to get one for my sister who has been TTC for 3 years.
@spcraig Does your sister want one of these? If she's been unsuccessfully ttc for 3 years, she almost certainly needs intervention beyond a device to track her temperature.
I'm only at the one year mark and if someone got me this I would be frankly insulted. I wouldn't get her anything unless she has expressed she wants it.
THIS.
Unless she's a been trying for three years type who can somehow manage to not do any research in that time and learn things like the p has to go in the v and how to predict when she will ovulate & confirm ovulation.... you're going to be out $200 and she's going to be offended. If my sister gave that to me at this point, I'd likely cry. "Oh thank you person who doesn't know what I've been going through for basically telling me to just temp. Like I hadn't thought of that." It's like the 'just relax,' only more expensive so then you also feel like crap for not wanting the gift.
Seriously, talk to her. Take her out for a smoothie or whatever. Tell her you love her and you hate to see her going through this. Tell her that it's nothing to do with her value as a woman. Tell her it has nothing to do with what kind of mom she'd be because she'll be great. Ask her how you can be supportive. Ask her what she needs. Ask what their plans are from here so you can support them. At the next family gathering, when Uncle Frank starts asking when she's going to have kids, intervene and change the subject or whatever saves her from having to justify why she doesn't have kids.
If their plan is treatment, give her the cold, hard cash to add to her treatment fund. If you want something to wrap, go to Target and buy her a pair of fun socks. They have lots of $4 or less. I always wear fun socks for my time in the stirrups because it makes me feel better, reminds me of my friends who are rooting me on, and because it gives us something to small talk about while we pretend that my vagina isn't just out there in the breeze.
Or, send a few small care packages from time to time. Just little things that would brighten her day. A note, a funny card, a gift card for an ice cream, etc.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Also: Is it just me or is 'Have you tried acupuncture?' the new 'Just relax'?
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
Also: Is it just me or is 'Have you tried acupuncture?' the new 'Just relax'?
Really any "Have you tried..." question is the new "Just relax." Yes, before you even open your mouth, I have tried it. No matter what it is, yes.
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
I'm late to the party (as per usual), but... (I'm not this excited about it, I just love me some Hermoine) @KristoKekerooni yyeeppp, and like @saralee797-2, I even gave a polite response!
Also, I totally second @adirat, honestly if someone gave me this at over 2 years in I would probably throw it in a junk drawer the minute that they left. If it's been that long, something that makes an educated guess at when you O is not about to be helpful...unlesd it magically speaks to your ovaries/ute and your H's sperm and tells everyone to get on board...i assume this does not.
ETA: also, I should mention, basically an emphatic YES! to everything @kiki75 said.
<blockquote class="Quote"> <div class="QuoteAuthor"><a href="/profile/antoto">antoto</a> said:</div> <div class="QuoteText">[Snipped] K now this thread can die again until next year and<b> I hope all you ladies are out of here by then.</b></div> </blockquote> ^^^ This. And also, sorry to bump it up lol I only waited this long bc I *<i>did</i>* think it seemed oddly familiar...
I just want to say the raising hand gifs gave me a nice little chuckle.
Why, cuz it's so hilarious how many of us still have no baby this many months later?
@Dumbgurl04 I have no idea why you would think that this is "hilarious" or why you thought your comment was appropriate. I love these ladies and I wish I knew them IRL. With that being said I'd give ANYTHING to be on a BMB rather than being stuck here.
Yeah. I definitely thought that comment must have come from an old drive-by that was holding a grudge. @Dumbgurl04 I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and say I think what you meant to say was, "I'm so sorry you're all still here but your gif game is on fleek."
If I'm right, what your wrote came off totally different. Apologize sincerely and we can move on.
If you actually meant what you wrote, then I have another gif for you.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Ditto on seeing @kiki75 other gif! I was mostly lurking (more active on TTCAL), but yeah... here's me:
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
<blockquote class="Quote"> <div><a rel="nofollow">kiki75</a> said:</div> <div>Yeah. I definitely thought that comment must have come from an old drive-by that was holding a grudge. @Dumbgurl04 <b>I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and say I think what you meant to say was, </b> <b>"I'm so sorry you're all still here but your gif game is on fleek."</b> <img alt="NRK P3 squad crew fest p3 GIF" src="https://media1.giphy.com/media/HViCLYo612G4w/giphy.gif">
If I'm right, what your wrote came off totally different. <b>Apologize sincerely and we can move on. </b>
If you actually meant what you wrote, then I have another gif for you. </div> </blockquote> Yeah... I mean I have to laugh sometimes bc otherwise I'd just be a useless puddle, sobbing on the floor. But I think what she meant was <img alt="" src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/jb/89mflvdky5dl.gif"> <img alt="" src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/sy/tjf1zzeekp5i.gif"> <img alt="" src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/vm/tn78pi9klg6u.gif">
But I mean.... I can obv see how it could have been taken completely differently too.... :/ I think she's just new here and maybe missing the point... NO ONE WANTS TO BE HERE long enough to remember the zombie threads from when they were posted the first time. No one deserves to be here this long. ((((*Big hugs))))
Yeah... because when I asked for a raise of hands, I totally meant it as a fun joke we can all get on board with... not because I am a bitter bitch wallowing in pity and misery... oh wait.
I'm sure you didn't mean it, but ouch.
TTC #1 since September 2014 Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI
(count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low
progesterone Check out my Infertility blog Check out my Infertility Instagram
Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015 BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015 BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015 BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018 BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015 Met with OBGYN in January 2016 Me: all clear, H: OAT November 2016: HSG = All
Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt
#1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17 December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC) Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA) FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018 May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus" FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019 Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! Lost Baby A 02 July 2018 Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018 Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Oh wow totally didn't mean it in that way. Just meant they were on point and were some good gifs. Sorry if it came off that way, did not mean it that just was scrolling through and I felt silly cause I started looking up all this information in the comments and then seeing it was posted back in September and everyone seemed to be laughing it off with gifs so I didon't feel as silly. Sorry it was taken out of context
<blockquote class="Quote"> <div><a rel="nofollow">kiki75</a> said:</div> <div><b>@Dumbgurl04</b> That was a sincere apology. <b>No hiding necessary.</b> Just more caution and a moment before posting asking if what you wrote makes your intentions clear.
[SITB WSS (((HUGS)))]
<b>My gif will have to wait. ;)</b></div> </blockquote> <img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/0o/9unnwfkjvy2y.gif" alt="">
Re: Ava bracelet, yay or nay?
DS born 3/11
Angel Baby 3 6/28/11 9/5/17 BFP!!
divorced October 2014 9/6/17 hCG 88 progesterone 9.1 (prometrium started)
Married DH 10/15 DH's DS born 6/09 9/8/17 hCG 242!!!
Not preventing since 11/15 EDD 5/8/18 Adjusted 5/15/18
TTC since 1/1/16 9/27/17 we have a heart beat!
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
Raaing Medical updated the app while I was on vacation and the new version wouldn't sync temps for 5 or 6 days, I was so annoyed. On the plus side, their customer service was responsive and they did fix the issue. But other than that is has been working well for me and even gives me notifications if there wasn't enough data to create a reliable temp (I didn't sleep enough) or when my temp spike was sufficient to imply ovulation.
The thing is literally double stick taped under your armpit with a temperature sensor that is in constant contact, but it is so small I don't even notice. The (few) reviews on Amazon implied that a few users experience rashes from taping the device, some of them see a short battery life, and the app isn't user friendly. Other reviews were mostly positive. I would agree with the app complaints but I haven't experienced any other issues (and I just take the temp and put it into FF anyway).
However, this device is not predictive of FW so I only got it for accuracy reasons, and also convenience since I don't have to wake up early just to temp and don't have to wake up DH. I can't say I'd recommend it yet, but it could be worth looking into if you are worried about those same problems. I am not sure what data Ava uses to predict FW but speculating on the issues it has recognizing anovulation or working for irregular/lengthy cycles it may just be using previous cycles to predict your current cycle.
Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014
TTC #1 August 2016. BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
I've been using the ava bracelet for about two weeks. So far I really like it. It predicted my ovulation date and after a few days actually moved it up, I'm assuming because of data it pulled from me when I slept.
Here is some background: I went off birth control in Feb and was using OPK and temping BBT to find my fertile window and confirm ovulation. The first two months I found I ovulated on day 21 of a 30 day cycle. The temping and peeing was pretty consuming and my husband had to travel a lot for the summer so I just let fertility friend predict my fertile window based on those two months and when my period was. So naturally it kept predicting O on day 21. My cycles were 30 days for the first three months off bc then started to waver by 1-4 days (28, 31, 34, 29 were my last four.
So I ordered the ava bracelet and started wearing it this month. It told me I was at high fertility on day 10 of my cycle and predicted ovulation on day 16. Since I though I was going to ovulate on day 21, at first I was frustrated. Was this expensive bracelet no better than a counting app that was assuming I was like most women that ovulate around day 14? But then the next day it suddenly changed and said I was now in peak fertility and that ovulation was going to happen on day 13 of my cycle. I can't imagine it would suddenly change like that unless some data it collected from me made it change its prediction. Perhaps my luteal phase actually changed over the last few months and Ive been timing sex all wrong. Perhaps thats the reason I haven't had much luck getting pregnant. Not sure but if it is true Im super glad to have found that out. Ive heard over and over that luteal phases don't really change that much but I've also read some other sources say it can alter after coming off of bc. I typically don't produce much cervical mucus but I actually was finding small amounts of ewcm when I wiped during the time ava said I was fertile. That added some credibility to the prediction.
Anyways, if its accurate it is a hell of lot easier than opks and temping etc. I think next month I will temp and see if the data matches up with what the bracelet predicts.
Me: 30 | DH: 28
TTC since March 2016
1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and TI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
Dx: unexplained & mild MFI | Rx: Femara w/ trigger & IUI
1st IUI: BFP. Chemical Pregnancy
2st IUI: BFN
3rd IUI: BFN
1 round femara 7.5: BPF!
Due date March 2018
Highly monitored internet and no cell service in the office, so I'm postin' and ghostin' while I'm workin'
I didn't even realize it was almost a year ago. Ugh.
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog
Check out my Infertility Instagram
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
ETA: I even commented above and wasn't snarky about it so you can tell how old this is
Beloved SS: born 12/2011
TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016
**TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW**
August 2016 - dx with DOR
Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T
May 2017 - began freezing sperm
June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T
July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba
July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
I'm only at the one year mark and if someone got me this I would be frankly insulted. I wouldn't get her anything unless she has expressed she wants it.
TTC #2 - August 2016
MFI
IUI #1-3 BFN
BFP 4/21/18 MMC 6/11/18
Unless she's a been trying for three years type who can somehow manage to not do any research in that time and learn things like the p has to go in the v and how to predict when she will ovulate & confirm ovulation.... you're going to be out $200 and she's going to be offended. If my sister gave that to me at this point, I'd likely cry. "Oh thank you person who doesn't know what I've been going through for basically telling me to just temp. Like I hadn't thought of that." It's like the 'just relax,' only more expensive so then you also feel like crap for not wanting the gift.
Seriously, talk to her. Take her out for a smoothie or whatever. Tell her you love her and you hate to see her going through this. Tell her that it's nothing to do with her value as a woman. Tell her it has nothing to do with what kind of mom she'd be because she'll be great. Ask her how you can be supportive. Ask her what she needs. Ask what their plans are from here so you can support them. At the next family gathering, when Uncle Frank starts asking when she's going to have kids, intervene and change the subject or whatever saves her from having to justify why she doesn't have kids.
If their plan is treatment, give her the cold, hard cash to add to her treatment fund. If you want something to wrap, go to Target and buy her a pair of fun socks. They have lots of $4 or less. I always wear fun socks for my time in the stirrups because it makes me feel better, reminds me of my friends who are rooting me on, and because it gives us something to small talk about while we pretend that my vagina isn't just out there in the breeze.
Or, send a few small care packages from time to time. Just little things that would brighten her day. A note, a funny card, a gift card for an ice cream, etc.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
@kiki75 Amen.
Also: Is it just me or is 'Have you tried acupuncture?' the new 'Just relax'?
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
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TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
(I'm not this excited about it, I just love me some Hermoine)
@KristoKekerooni yyeeppp, and like @saralee797-2, I even gave a polite response!
Also, I totally second @adirat, honestly if someone gave me this at over 2 years in I would probably throw it in a junk drawer the minute that they left. If it's been that long, something that makes an educated guess at when you O is not about to be helpful...unlesd it magically speaks to your ovaries/ute and your H's sperm and tells everyone to get on board...i assume this does not.
ETA: also, I should mention, basically an emphatic YES! to everything @kiki75 said.
K now this thread can die again until next year and I hope all you ladies are out of here by then.
<div class="QuoteAuthor"><a href="/profile/antoto">antoto</a> said:</div>
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K now this thread can die again until next year and<b> I hope all you ladies are out of here by then.</b></div>
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^^^ This. And also, sorry to bump it up lol
I only waited this long bc I *<i>did</i>* think it seemed oddly familiar...
@Dumbgurl04 I have no idea why you would think that this is "hilarious" or why you thought your comment was appropriate. I love these ladies and I wish I knew them IRL. With that being said I'd give ANYTHING to be on a BMB rather than being stuck here.
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
Thanks, I'm glad you're having a chuckle while I'm about to have contrast dye rocketed through my uterus and fallopian tubes.
"I'm so sorry you're all still here but your gif game is on fleek."
If I'm right, what your wrote came off totally different. Apologize sincerely and we can move on.
If you actually meant what you wrote, then I have another gif for you.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Oh, and here's me a year later...
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
I was mostly lurking (more active on TTCAL), but yeah... here's me:
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
<div><a rel="nofollow">kiki75</a> said:</div>
<div>Yeah. I definitely thought that comment must have come from an old drive-by that was holding a grudge. @Dumbgurl04 <b>I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and say I think what you meant to say was, </b>
<b>"I'm so sorry you're all still here but your gif game is on fleek."</b>
<img alt="NRK P3 squad crew fest p3 GIF" src="https://media1.giphy.com/media/HViCLYo612G4w/giphy.gif">
If I'm right, what your wrote came off totally different. <b>Apologize sincerely and we can move on. </b>
If you actually meant what you wrote, then I have another gif for you. </div>
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Yeah... I mean I have to laugh sometimes bc otherwise I'd just be a useless puddle, sobbing on the floor. But I think what she meant was
<img alt="" src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/jb/89mflvdky5dl.gif">
<img alt="" src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/sy/tjf1zzeekp5i.gif">
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But I mean.... I can obv see how it could have been taken completely differently too.... :/ I think she's just new here and maybe missing the point... NO ONE WANTS TO BE HERE long enough to remember the zombie threads from when they were posted the first time. No one deserves to be here this long. ((((*Big hugs))))
I'm sure you didn't mean it, but ouch.
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
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BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
*Going back to my hiding place*
My gif will have to wait.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
<div><a rel="nofollow">kiki75</a> said:</div>
<div><b>@Dumbgurl04</b> That was a sincere apology. <b>No hiding necessary.</b> Just more caution and a moment before posting asking if what you wrote makes your intentions clear.
[SITB WSS (((HUGS)))]
<b>My gif will have to wait. ;)</b></div>
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