We've been trying since December 2014. Our first pregnancy ended last summer with a miscarriage at 6 weeks. I was devastated but eager to try again, and got pregnant two months later. Our beautiful son was diagnosed with a rare and very serious heart defect at 24 weeks. At 37 weeks, I moved a thousand miles from home to be close to the BEST children's hospital for heart problems.
He was born at 42 weeks (!) and had open heart surgery when he was just 5 days old. He did very well, and we were so proud of him. But when they removed his breathing tube, things went downhill. To make a long story short, he was diagnosed with a rare genetic disease that caused his heart condition and breathing problems, among other things. The mutation that caused his problems happened randomly. It does not run in our families.
When he was 3 weeks old, our son died of respiratory failure. This time, "devastated" doesn't even begin to cover how we feel.
We're not ready to try again yet; we're benched until at least January. I had an easy, uncomplicated pregnancy but a very complicated birth. A placental abruption led to an emergency c-section. And a week after birth, I came down with a rare case of postpartum preeclampsia.
But this seems like a good place for me now. I want to learn as much as I can about fertility and improving our odds between now and January.
If anyone here has experience with PGD (preimplantation genetic diagnosis), I'd like to hear your story. Our son's condition is unlikely to occur in our family again. But there is a small chance it could recur if one of us carries the mutation in our reproductive organs (genetic mosaicism). Our geneticist recommended PGD as a way to be 100% sure it wouldn't happen again. We're on the fence about it.
There is also an infertility board (I know you don't have IF) where many of the women are going through IVF and most of them are having PGS/PGD done. I have heard they are a very good resource. Many of the women I know who spend time over there have also suffered several loses so they may be a good group in addition to here
BFP #1: 1.22.16 MMC: 2.29.16 (
tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16 BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16 BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16 RE appt: 6.27.2016-
saline sono all clear Progenity: + carrier
Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin PCOS, hypothyroid,
MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006 Clomid +
TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN Clomid
75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016-
BFP #4 10/6 Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71
beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21 HSG- clear IVF Jan 2017 Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198 Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
Thank you. As much as it sucks to be here, it feels good to talk to other women who get it. My friends are supportive, but most of them don't really know how it feels to go through this.
I am so sorry for your losses, but am glad you have introduced yourself. This is a great group that has offered me tremendous support for the past six+ months and I hope you find comfort here too. I second @DungeonTrollMel, I participate in the IF boards as well as here and there are a lot of women pursuing IVF with genetic testing over there.
Please feel free to lurk and/or participate here as much as you want. There is a even Monthly Benched thread you may want to check out. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
I'm so so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I am going through the pgd process right now, but we just started. My husband and I are both carriers of a rare genetic disease that we are testing for. We are designing the genetic probe shortly.
Me:35, DH 37 ~ Married July 2014 ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp) bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease) ttcal May 2016
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I remember you from the July BMB, and some of the July moms have been keeping me updated on your story. Sending you so much love! ❤
me 30; DH 35 TTC since May 2014. Aug 2014 BFP, EDD April 22, 2015. Low progesterone, started suppositories. Loss at 5w6d. Nov 19, 2015 BFP at 13 dpo, EDD July 29, 2016. MMC discovered 12/29 (9+4). Natural miscarriage 1/16 (12+1). AMH results 0.42, 1.2; FSH 12.1, AFC 10, dx DOR. RPL testing results normal. Nurse recommended progesterone suppositories in TWW. Clomid + trigger + TI cycle August 2016 - failed. Thin lining. Femara + trigger + TI cycle December 2016 - failed. Thin lining. Short LP (8 days). Acupuncture & Chinese herbs starting January 2017, lengthened LP to 10 days
@AL_TwinCities Hi! The July board is/was a good group. I don't think I could've gotten through this summer without them. I'm sorry you're here now too. Fx for better luck this time!!
Re: I don't want to be here, but... (Intro)
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71 beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15 Beta #2 38 Beta #3- 71 beta #4 171 Beta # 5- 21 Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017
I'll check out the IF board for more info on PGD.
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
Please feel free to lurk and/or participate here as much as you want. There is a even Monthly Benched thread you may want to check out. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
ttcal May 2016
TTC since May 2014.
Aug 2014 BFP, EDD April 22, 2015. Low progesterone, started suppositories. Loss at 5w6d.
Nov 19, 2015 BFP at 13 dpo, EDD July 29, 2016. MMC discovered 12/29 (9+4). Natural miscarriage 1/16 (12+1).
AMH results 0.42, 1.2; FSH 12.1, AFC 10, dx DOR.
RPL testing results normal. Nurse recommended progesterone suppositories in TWW.
Clomid + trigger + TI cycle August 2016 - failed. Thin lining.
Femara + trigger + TI cycle December 2016 - failed. Thin lining.
Short LP (8 days).
Acupuncture & Chinese herbs starting January 2017, lengthened LP to 10 days
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