TTC After a Loss

(re)intro

MamaCoffinMamaCoffin member
edited August 2016 in TTC After a Loss
Hi all.

I was somewhat active here at the beginning of the year after my first loss in November of last year. I was having a really difficult time with TTC and dealing with the effects of loss and being active on this board was hard for me. We had a CP in mid  April and got a BFP in the beginning of June. Unfortunately I began miscarrying right at 8 weeks. I passed the sac almost 2 weeks later.

After much deliberation we decided that we thought it would be best to just stop trying. It's been extremely painful and I can't imagine going through anymore pain. But.... now that my period has returned (August 8th) my mind, heart, and body are really aching to get back into the TTC process. We're still benched for another cycle and I'm not 100% sure where we are with all of this, but I'm ready to get back into the conversation over here. You were all wonderful and supportive when I was active before. I hate that we're all here but I hope I can offer some support as well!

Mama to two perfect little girls.
Lucy 07-13-11
Violet 03-13-14
Conceived #3 since September 2015
11-25-15 twelve week loss
07-21-16 ten week loss
10-03-16 5 week loss
TTC again soon!

Re: (re)intro

  •  I  <3 you!! I hope you can come to a decision that is comfortable and makes you both happy during your benched month. You are an amazingly strong woman and I want the best for you!
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.16
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
    Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
    Beta #1 15   Beta #2 38    Beta #3- 71     beta #4 171   Beta # 5- 21  Natural MC 10/21
    HSG- clear
    IVF Jan 2017
    Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
    PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
    FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
    Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
    Baby BOY due 11.29.2017






  • @MamaCoffin I'm so sorry for your losses and that you find yourself back here again. I'd be lost without this board and I hope this board provides some comfort to you during this difficult time. 
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
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  • Hi @MamaCoffin  I don't have much really to say other than that I hope you can come to a decision that you're both happy with. Other than that, just <3
        
    Me: 34 DH: 38
    Married: June 2011
    TTC since Feb 2016
    BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 
    BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
    BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
  • I am sorry for your losses. I hope you make the decision that will make you happy
  • Sorry for your losses.  But welcome back and I wish you the best in your decision making process.  

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • Sorry for your losses. I wish you the best in whatever you decide!
  • I'm sorry you are here again @mamacoffin!
  • Welcome back @MamaCoffin, I'm very sorry for your losses.
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • So sorry you're back @MamaCoffin, but welcome <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • I really hope you are able to come to a decision that both your heart and your mind are happy with and ready for  <3 You are a fantastic person, parent, and source of support and I genuinly wish you all the best.
    Me: 28 DH: 26
    Married: November 2015  3 
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
    DD Born 06/23/17 3
    TFAS: April 2018
    BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
    BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19


  • So sorry I ghosted after my initial post. Thank you everyone for the kind words!

    Mama to two perfect little girls.
    Lucy 07-13-11
    Violet 03-13-14
    Conceived #3 since September 2015
    11-25-15 twelve week loss
    07-21-16 ten week loss
    10-03-16 5 week loss
    TTC again soon!
  • So sorry you are back here but it's a great support system. Hugs to you. 
    I'm 29, husband is 30
    Together since 2006
    Married 01.17.15  <3

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