TTC After a Loss
lin0442
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Intro- Hi everyone!
lin0442
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I've been lurking for the past month or so, but I've been benched for two cycles since my loss at the end of May so I felt a little odd introducing myself.
I lost my first pregnancy at almost 13 weeks, found out at my NT scan that the baby had passed the day prior. My follow up testing has come back normal and healthy. It has definitely been an emotional roller coaster, especially since I was in the running for a great job opportunity that I applied to after the loss. Unfortunately that fell through due to some organizational nonsense (they had even checked my references!) so we're back to looking at TTC after I get af this coming week (probably- more on this).
In a way, I'm happy- I really do want a baby with dh and don't want to put it off much longer. I'm also scared to try again, but I'm sure all of you can relate to that.
All this being said, I'm a little worried/excited that I might have accidentally gotten pregnant this cycle. I'm 12 DPO and took a wondfo test this morning and it had that super light maybe evap line but maybe something. I'll retest in 2 or 3 days and try not to get my hopes up. It really would figure that for the two months out of a 10 year relationship where bc was dh's responsibility...
I lost my first pregnancy at almost 13 weeks, found out at my NT scan that the baby had passed the day prior. My follow up testing has come back normal and healthy. It has definitely been an emotional roller coaster, especially since I was in the running for a great job opportunity that I applied to after the loss. Unfortunately that fell through due to some organizational nonsense (they had even checked my references!) so we're back to looking at TTC after I get af this coming week (probably- more on this).
In a way, I'm happy- I really do want a baby with dh and don't want to put it off much longer. I'm also scared to try again, but I'm sure all of you can relate to that.
All this being said, I'm a little worried/excited that I might have accidentally gotten pregnant this cycle. I'm 12 DPO and took a wondfo test this morning and it had that super light maybe evap line but maybe something. I'll retest in 2 or 3 days and try not to get my hopes up. It really would figure that for the two months out of a 10 year relationship where bc was dh's responsibility...
Re: Intro- Hi everyone!
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!
E. L. A. born 12/7/2017