Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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I'm back for round 2.

After 5 hours in the er last night they have confirmed that I have miscarried again at 8 weeks. After a beautiful and perfect u/s on Wednesday. The doctor now wants to make me high risk and get us in to see a ferility specialist and see why I can not carry past 8 weeks. And why they are seemingly normal and perfect up until suddenly they are not. I have had no bleeding this time until last night when I started passing clots. Anyways. I am take it better than I thought I would but I really thought I would be able to wake up from a bad dream this morning. Rubbing my belly thinking there is something in there still.

Re: I'm back for round 2.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Thanks. I have hit the angry phase today so it should be a super fun day.
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    I'm so sorry for your losses

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    BFP #1 12/2012, DS born 8/2013
    BFP #2 7/2015, MMC and D&C 9/2015
    BFP #3 11/2015, CP
    BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016




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    It is sad to think, but I have found comfort in knowing that I am not the only one.  I am not alone.  I love hearing success stories of woman just like us who go on to have healthy pregnancies.  

    Harder to say than to do...just take it one day, week, month at a time.  Give it up to God and know that he is in control.  
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    God has a plan for us we are just waiting on Him to show us His will while we are trying to stay out of the way.

    These cramps today have been awful. They said I had passed everything last night but if I did I don't know why I am still passing so many blood clots and having such bad cramps. Last time I had surgery due to them thinking it was in my tube. So I am new to the natural process
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    I am so sorry for your loss... *hugs*

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I have also miscarried twice around the 8 week loss. I was already seeing a fertility specialist because I could not get pregnant on my own. Sending prayers!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I have miscarried twice now too and my OB just set up an appointment with me to do some basic tests to see if there is anything out of the ordinary. I'm extremely nervous.

    Let's hope we both get a clean bill of health or we find a solution to this repeated situation. Best of luck to you. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
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    Thanks guys. I just want some answers. We have no problem getting pregnant. That part is pretty easy for us. No more than 3 months of trying each time. I just can not carry past 8 weeks. And I feel like my body is failing me.
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    @cammlyn You are not alone, I have that same feeling. We haven't had much trouble getting pregnant either and both of my MCs were before 8 weeks too. I hope the fertility specialist has some answers for you and can give you some piece of mind. Best of luck.
    Pregnancy Ticker
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    @GoldenTMama thank you so much. It is so nice to know that I am not alone. My OB kinda brushed it off like it was no big thing and super common. Which I understand Mc are. But I want answers. I want to be able to carry my baby.
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    So sorry for your loss. I've had 2 mc's also. Both at 7 weeks 5 days. My OB did some blood work and found out I have MTHFR. A clotting disorder that causes mc's between 8-10 weeks. It's makes me 5 times higher to miscarry. I'm taking a different prenatal and vitamin b12, folic acid and a baby aspirin everyday. More than likely a shot everyday when I do become pregnant again. It's a blood thinner. I hope you get some answers soon!
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    lilp2015 said:

    So sorry for your loss. I've had 2 mc's also. Both at 7 weeks 5 days. My OB did some blood work and found out I have MTHFR. A clotting disorder that causes mc's between 8-10 weeks. It's makes me 5 times higher to miscarry. I'm taking a different prenatal and vitamin b12, folic acid and a baby aspirin everyday. More than likely a shot everyday when I do become pregnant again. It's a blood thinner. I hope you get some answers soon!

    Yeah my OB did run bloodwork for this as well but told us he really expected it to be negative. Which was quite confusing because he said next time we would start on a baby aspirin and progesterone as soon as I test positive but that he don't think it would have helped this time. So if it didn't this time why will it next time.
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    I was taking progesterone and a baby aspirin with this ask mc also. My dr said 1 mc can be a fluke. 2 and there's something wrong. That's why she didn't wait for me to have a 3rd mc before testing. I also had seen the heartbeat at 7 weeks 2 days. Everything seemed fine.
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    We saw a heartbeat at 7w4d as well. :(
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