TTC after 35

TWW post (week of 8/24 - 8/30)

Hi everyone!  This is a two week wait post for anyone who is in or soon will be in the TWW. Tell us your symptoms (no matter how crazy they may be!), how many DPO you are, and when/if you'll test. Good luck everyone!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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Re: TWW post (week of 8/24 - 8/30)

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  • TomerineTomerine member
    edited August 2015
    I'm a little over a week past o (I didn't temp this month, so I can't be sure exactly when I O'd).  No symptoms, though I feel like I have to pee a lot, but I'm not about to start reading into that.  I'm hoping things work out this month, but we've gotten some news re: DH's health that could be impacting TTC.  It's both scary and sad and anxiety producing.  But one day (and doctor's appointment) at a time.  

    Good luck to everyone!
  • Sorry to hear that @Tomerine! Praying for you and DH! I understand not wanting to read anything into symptoms. I have to stop myself from frantically googling any and every little twinge, etc. (Which I did when I got the pinchy feeling today lol)
  • Thank you @thistle8677 and @lyssaroony. This year has been real BS and I keep thinking getting pregnant would be a nice way to turn it around. But... life. Sigh. :((
  • Sorry to hear about your husband @Tomerine.  I hope everything turns out okay..
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Ugh @Tomerine .... Sorry to hear about your DH's health challenge. I'm with you on a tough year and wanting a BFP to turn it around ... Hang in there!
    Me: 37, DH: 44
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Canada




  • Hoping things turn around and you get some good news soon.
  • @Tomerine sorry to hear about your H. Hope things turn around for you.
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

  • @Tomerine, prayers for DH's health. 
    And positive thoughts for BFP's this week!!

    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


  • Just wanted to check in with the TWW'ers. How is everyone feeling and dealing with the waiting game?

    @Tomerine, how are you hanging in there?
  • Hi all. Jumping in if that's okay. I'm only 2DPIUI and it already feels like it is going so slow. I start crinone tonight so any symptoms from here on out will be attributed to the progesterone. My beta is 9/8-the Tuesday after Labor Day. Seems like it's so far away...
      • TTC #1 since August 2014
      • currently on 5th medicated IUI cycle
  • I'm a mess right now.  I'm so emotional ... and irrational.  I started crying today for no real reason .. at work no less.  I'm sweating like a pig and I've been nauseous the last two mornings.  Seriously, I know the progesterone is a wicked *itch, but I've never been quite this bad.  I need Beta Monday to be here ASAP so I can either find out I'm pregnant and not crazy or stop the progesterone and become normal again...
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • @kmetcalfe77 fx and prayers for the beta! And that the waiting will not be torture for you!

    @emsmama15 hugs and prayers for the beta!

  • @emsmama15 fingers crossed for you!
  • @emsmama15 I've got my hopes way up for you- for a happy beta day, and that it comes FAST! And hugs for the hormone-crazies.

    Well, I'm out. AF appeared 2 days early this morning. I was trying to prepare myself for this, in light of our recent news, but the small part of me that's not yet completely jaded was still cheerleading in the corners of my brain. Feeling completely hopeless at this point.

    Hopes and prayers for everyone else... Good luck!
  • @emsmama15 Beta Monday will be here in no time!!

    @Tomerine I'm so sorry AF showed up :( Don't give up hope!


    16dpo here. No AF and no BFP.... I don't know what to think.... I'll test again on Sunday if AF is a no show. That would mean a 28 day cycle with an 18 day LP... so weird!! 

    I'm so done with this torture. Ugh.


    Anniversary
  • @emsmama15 fingers crossed for a speedy weekend and a good beta Monday!

    @Tomerine sending you big hugs.

    @BulgariHeart hoping you get your BFP!

    I'm cd30, 13 DPO and AF is due tomorrow. I've had 2 BFNs this week and was really hoping that maybe I just implanted late ... But temp dropped a bit more this morning so I'm expecting AF to show up today or tomorrow. Bummed.
    Me: 37, DH: 44
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Canada




  • @emsmama15 - I'm thinking of you every day and REALLY hoping this is your time!!

    @Tomerine - So sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of warm hugs.

    @BulgariHeart - fingers crossed for you!!

    Good luck everyone!! Can't wait to see some more BFP's soon!!


    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
  • I'm pretty sure I'm 8DPO and my temps are acting weird this month. Not cool. And I don't have any symptoms.

    Could somebody please tell me how many more months I'll have to wait before I get pregnant? I would really like to know that. Thanks.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













  • AF has arrived for me. :-q
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • TomerineTomerine member
    edited August 2015
    @thistle8677 Boooooooo! Join me in a glass of wine? :-??
  • Double booooooooo!!!! What a witch.....
  • @thistle8677 -- BOOOO is right.  I'm sorry! :(

    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • @thistle8677 - Ugh! What a bummer. So sorry.
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
  • The bitch is here.
    I kept my appointment for a Maya massage and will go see a Naturopath as I think it's time to get a saliva test to see what my hormones are doing.
    TTC isn't good for my emotional health. Three cycles in and I feel completely drained.
    Anniversary
  • So sorry @BulgariHeart! It is definitely a tiring process in every way. Prayers and hugs!
  • @BulgariHeart I'm gonna do the massage too. I had the saliva test done probably 7-8 years ago, maybe I should do that too. I'm sorry for how hard this is. Xo
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • @BulgariHeart I'm sorry. It's a really draining process, for sure.
  • @BulgariHeart, I'm sorry.  I was just telling someone how awful this process was.  The best description I could come up with was that it's broken my spirit.  I just hope I can get back to normal one day.  I hope you can too...

    How did you guys find a practitioner for the Mayan massage?  @thistle8677
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Thanks ladies, your support helps a lot! At least I can be please with the fact that I got a 16 day LP this cycle. At least something seems to be going right.

    @emsmama15, I found the Maya massage therapist I'm seeing through a simple google search, and then realized that she practices where I go for acupuncture/TCM. They said the first appointment will be 120 minutes... I'm not a massage-y type of person so I guess a 120 minute massage is going to completely knock me out LOL. I wonder what she'll do for that long...
    Anniversary
  • @emsmama15 I first heard about it probably 8 or 9 years ago from a pg woman who has suffered recurrent mc followed by trouble conceiving. Meeting her always stuck with me, even though I never thought I would be TTC again.
    I did a Google search and found several practitioners. I'm gonna call one right now.
    It's time.
    Do you think you're gonna try it too?
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • Just 'cause it's always good to look for the bright side, I'll say that my big issue lately has been the annoying headache I would get on CD1. Well, today my jet lagged, sleep deprived, angry, AF-ridden self has NO headache!!! Victory!  \:D/
    Anniversary
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