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Appt Today

jlo1019jlo1019 member
in TTC after 35
I had my checkup with my doctor today. I'm four weeks from my loss. She said we can start trying right away. That felt like a relief! I'm still sad after losing my son at 20 weeks but I feel part of our healing will be TTC again. It felt good to see her (even though I cried), I felt hopeful after not feeling hopeful for awhile.
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  • dolphin012dolphin012 member
    @jlo1019 I am so sorry. That sounds hard. But it does sound like your appt might be a little of a turning point. Glad you can continue right away.
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

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  • emsmama15emsmama15 member
    I'm so happy your appointment made you feel hopeful again.  I'm sorry for the pain you're going through.
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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  • thistle8677thistle8677 member
    I'm so sorry for you loss, that's heartbreaking. I am so glad you have been given the okay to ttc.
    Welcome to the board and I wish you much healing and luck. Xo
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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  • SaltyStar09SaltyStar09 member
    So sorry for your loss but glad you got some good news today. Sending good thoughts your way.
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  • TomerineTomerine member
    All losses are hard, but ouch. I'm awed by your courage and hope after such sadness. Hoping for good things for you.
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  • lyssaroonylyssaroony member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and for your next TTC journey!
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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    I'm glad you are feeling hopeful again.  I wish you the best of luck.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • rspalding001rspalding001 member
    Im glad to hear you got the green light to try again. Im so sorry for your loss, but here is hoping that things work out better the next time around. Good Luck!
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