I feel horrible having to post and join in here... but at some point recently, my daughter stopped growing, and no heartbeat could be found... my last visit to the ob/gyn was wretched, and I am scheduled for a D&C Wednesday. I feel so much for everyone in this group, and I am sorry to say I have this reason for joining.
I knew my pregnancy was at a risk because I am intersex, but I had hopes despite it all. This was my first pregnancy, I'm 40 as well. We found out shortly after the 14w mark. Today's D&C was on the 15w mark.
You are right, none of us wants to be in this situation, but we have community, which helps some, yes.
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