Hey all so my husband and I are TTC and I have been doing all my research and such on my FW and CD etc...
He is younger than me 4 years to be exact and with me being 28 I can feel my clock ticking!
He is on board but he just doesn't get like the whole we need to TTC lol. He's just like very laid back about it and wants to just have sex when he feels like it, wither or not its my FW and such.
I think I am more on board than he is obviously and this is frustrating. Anyone else out there have the same issue or have any advice?
I am starting to get very emotional about it and having a hard time with it.
Thanks!
Re: TTC with a husband who doesent quite get it!
I had to keep sex fun. And you are only 28, you have many potential reproductive years ahead of you.
Our Angel: EDD: 05/11/17. MC at 6 weeks
Baby #2- EDD: 07/18/17
RE appt 12/2015
CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent
Dx: Unexplained Infertility
February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6
BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16
It's a girl!
Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S
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TFAS March 2018
RE consultation 8/2/18
Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19
It's a girl!
Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
Thanks everyone! You all made me feel much better about this whole thing. I deff will keep him in the loop if he asks and other than that just have fun with it!
Thanks!
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2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
28 is not old. Just because you are in a hurry to have a baby does not mean you don't have plenty of time to do so.
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2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
We've been not trying, not preventing for three years, and actively trying for a year. I count 8 cycles because those are the ones we've had sex during our fertile window. I do not push sex on my husband before ovulation, nor do I mention it at all. We enjoy sex, because we love each other and it's part of our relationship. Don't put pressure on your relationship, it causes stress and a rift between you.
Of course it's discouraging to not get pregnant right away, but that's life and many of us have gone through it. Trying to act like you have a medical problem when you don't, how would that make you feel any better. Isn't it more constructive to tell someone they have no reason to worry?
2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
I loathe when people do this. I'm all on your husband's side on this one.