TTC After a Loss

Boring weekend.

What are you lovely ladies up to this fine Saturday afternoon?

DH and I have been at each others throats today. So we are playing the silent game. Not sure what's up with that, hoping CD1 is going to show its face soon. That would explain a lot. Just kind of hanging out upstairs, surfin the web while he hides out in his "man cave".

Might make my way over to visit with some friends and clear my head. It's been a stressful past two months and I could use some good girl talk.

Hope you ladies are enjoying your day.

((Hugs))
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  • Hey lady! Sorry you and YH are having an off day. CD1 approaching doesn't help at all. :( I hope going to see your friends help but don't let the shitty shit linger too long with him!

    *hugs* to you.

    AFM we just did the 13 hour drive to VA to the IL's for our 2 week visit. I'm all cranky because I'm still sick and I haven't slept for over 24 hours. Drinking some hot tea with honey whiskey now and I'm hoping that helps :smiley:

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  • So many ((hugs)) Sorry you're having a rough day :( FX cd1 visits soon.

    I'm making pizza and working on a batch of christmas cookies. I'm way behind on my holiday baking this year. So not into it. But, Dh asked for Crispelli so I'm bucking up and getting my hands dirty.

  • @pinkcamino pizza sounds so good right now! I'm sorry you're not feeling into it but so nice of you to do it for YH.
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  • I've been at MHs throat all morning too. I've had a few triggers set me off since we are at my parents house. They have a crib for my niece and I just stood in front of it, staring at it, trying not to cry. My sister updated me about a friend who just found out the sex of their baby. Major trigger. I know she didn't mean to upset me. Now I'm hiding in a spare bedroom, snuggling with my dog and a decent amount of Captain's, and a few tissues.
    I find that I attack DH more strongly just after the triggers. It's like I'm focusing on him and things he does to annoy me in order to cope and try not to break down in tears. But that seems counter productive. Shouldn't I be nicer to him so he will be more comforting to me when I'm upset? Rhetorical question.

    Football is about to start and that will be a great distraction! Can I root for both the Eagles AND the Redskins to loose?!?!?!? :trollface:

    Is anyone else here a football junkie?

    Btw: GO COWBOYS!!! :stuck_out_tongue:

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  • @imnotfancy I've had a few triggers here at the IL's already and I just got here this morning at 9. May make for a long 2 weeks.

    I do the same with MH. He definitely takes the brunt of my frustrations but I know better and actually warn him ahead of time I'm going to be crazy and irrational. Not sure if that helps him or not lol I hope it gets easier for you *hug*

    I used to love football but they started having too many rules that kind of pussified it for me. I still enjoy it (love NFL red zone) but MH and I prefer hockey.

    And I'm a Bucs fan... Could explain why I am not too excited about it right now lol
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  • Hugs to the ladies who are dealing with triggers and arguments.  The holidays can be tough sometimes.

    I just finished at the mechanic for my car's 30,000 mile appt. and hoping to FINALLY finish up Christmas shopping this weekend.  This may be the earliest I've ever finished holiday shopping, usually I'm out on Christmas Eve Day doing shopping. ;)
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  • **hugs** to all the ladies having a difficult day.

    Today is a big baking day.  I'm taking a tiny break at the moment because I just finished the spritz cookie press cookies.

    Evil contraption that the cookie press is.  I feel like I just had an arm day at the gym.

    Beyond that, not much.  Listening to christmas music.  Drinking booze because I needed it about 30 seconds into the cookie press.  I'll wrap some presents later and then probably go to bed early because I have another day of baking ahead of me. 

    I'm pretty alone because it's Nutcracker season and my husband has work a lot until the day after Christmas.
    Counting down the days.


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  • Big hugs to those dealing with triggers! Much love ladies!

    I went in for my first round of testing and then my sister came over to make cookies. I'm still sick though :( SO has an ugly sweater party to go to tonight so I spent some times jazzing his up. I was supposed to go but I'm staying home. Maybe I'll wrap some presents. But I'll likely just sleep on the couch.
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  • ((HUGS)) to everyone who needs them today. @Crunkal FX for CD1.

    I'm still trying to get over this nasty cold. Today I finally feel a little more coherent/less dizzy so I want to catch up on email, etc. Really, though, I doubt I'll stray too far from Netflix. :)
  • @Menrandes‌ that reminds me that everyone is coming here for cookie decorating tomorrow. MH and I have to go in a different room because we add lady bits and man junk to our cookies :joy:

    I hope everyone sick feels better soon!
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  • Sorry for the bad day you and your H are having (((hugs))).

    Mr. Bug and I ironed out what we wanted to eat on Christmas Eve and did some grocery shopping. We found an organic grocery store that's about ten miles from us and decided to check it out. We also bought a lamp for our bonus room.

    We are now watching a Top Chef marathon.

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  • @Crunkal FX for cd1 soon!

    I had a pretty lazy day. I went for a run, did laundry, watched tv and movies all day, and cleaned the tv and computer screens because starting at the need to do it motivated me.

    Tonight DH and I are going bar hopping with some people from the gym. Yay! Our trainer/gym owner arranged it as the holiday get together.

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  • You all sound so productive! I'm STILL nursing my hangover. I think I drank a lot more than I thought I did last night, but I vaguely remember demanding more "grape juice" in my best southern accent. 

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    I hope your day got better lady! ((Hugs)) to everyone who's dealing with any shitty shit today. :x
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  • CFearsy said:
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    CFearsy said:
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    @CFearsy - Any closer to finding your dream home?

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    @heartbot, We're actually just looking for a starter home right now because we know that our dream home will come later!

    ETA: This was also our first day looking!
    Good luck,then! :) I love house hunting. Mostly because I just love nosing into other people's business and getting to walk through strangers' houses is so deliciously snoopy.

    ETA: Did you see anything you liked?
    We did! We actually put an offer in on one today that had everything we were looking for and was way under our price range. FX and we'll know tomorrow night whether they accept or not and then it'll be on to the inspection!
    That's awesome! Congrats!
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  • @heartbot‌ I must just have tears for everyone tonight because your experience just made me cry too. I'm so sorry she said that :cry:
    I know it gets "easier with time" but I can't imagine that anyone ever "gets over it". It's so soon from my first loss that maybe I'm too sensitive but I really can't think of a moment when I won't miss the dream that I lost. But I don't think I'm the only one...
    Again, I'm so sorry!!

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  • Hey girls, Sorry I disappeared. Didn't mean to post and run. It got a little ugly here, and I got upset and left for a while. Things calmed down now. Just took a little make up sex to make it all better. Think we're both just super stressed with the recent loss and the holidays. Sorry for those who are having a tough time. ((Hugs)) Hope everyone feels better and enjoys what left of the weekend.
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  • Yay on the house @cfearsy!

    @Crunkal‌ sorry it got bad and you had to leave but glad that it's a bit better now. The holidays seems to be a high stress time. *hug*
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  • @agpjt413‌ yeah, went out for a few hours. When I got back it was all apologies. Everything is all good now.

    @heartbot‌ sorry you're mother was so hurtful. Sometimes I don't think people think before they speak. It's insane how insensitive people are about pregnancy loss. I guess if you've never experienced a loss you just don't understand.
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  • Thanks @Nikolie93‌ I think it we both knew it was going to happen. It's been building up over the past few weeks. I think we both just needed to vent, lots of pent up frustration. Loss is still fresh on everyone's mind.

    I'm ready for the holidays to be over already.
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